It's simplistic to say that a porn scene that depicts female pleasure is ipso facto not degrading. One of the most powerful ways to depict a character as degraded is to show them reveling in something that's supposed to be degrading. All else being equal, "You'll take what you get and like it" is even more degrading…

This article made me wonder: What if the wider acceptance and embrace of facials by women is also a result of the wider acceptance and embrace of pornagraphy and porn culture by women in this society? Sort of like, women watch the same porn that men consume (catered to men) because it's the most common type…

It's not so much the complete & utter ubiquity of facials in porn that bothers me. It's the sheer extent to which they influence the expectations of men in real life sexual encounters.

You want some female perspective, Hugo? Oh, nevermind. You'd much rather tell us in a patronizing way what we should and shouldn't like.

The gender dynamic between two men is very different from the gender dynamic between a man and a woman for obvious reasons.