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Well, it is *Fox* - perhaps they’re sadly trying to mirror the right-wing target market base?

Ahhhh, the ole “I don’t know what the fuck I’m talking about so I’ll just say I didn’t read your response, and continue to post my own bullshit” reply is my favorite kind of reply.

Doesn’t seem that easy. Seems like she went through years of abuse and then made a very intense and painful decision to come forward with her story. But I guess difficulty is relative.

There is literally no non-racist reason why this woman has to be white. “That’s what the current role is casting for” just means we “we don’t want to put people of color on tv.”

You’re being unnecessarily patronizing. Back off. This guy isn’t the enemy.

“That looks festive” is totally fine. A male coworker of mine, on the other hand, who once said to me, “I love when a girl wears tights”? Not so much.

Yeah, I think these are generally good rules of thumb.

A few things:

Well, no, not at all. If that’s what your take-away was, then step back and read my post again.

I think those things you mentioned, like a new haircut or very nice outfit, are ok because they are more obvious. A guy who occasionally came to my office would tell me that I had great posture, along with other random observations that me made about me. It was such an odd thing to notice that it felt creepy to me.…

Don’t. I change my hair a lot and my male colleagues always seem to feel that I need to hear their unsolicited opinions. Or make snide comments like “brunette, blonde, who are you today?”. You’d think these old guys were editors at Vogue for all the interest they have in my appearance. I’m 49, so its definitely not…

The best compliment I ever got from a boss was: “You have very good common sense.” It was the first time any superior had complimented my intellectual side. I got choked up, for real. I still remember his face, his tone of voice, and even the way he was shuffling papers when he said it. Complimenting women (or anyone)…

Given what happened later, let’s hope it haunts her too.

I personally don’t mind comments on an attribute of the clothing (cool color, intricate embroidery) but the majority of men seem completely oblivious to the nuance that takes a comment from mild to disgusting. Embroidery on the cuffs, fine, but if you comment on on the stitching on the neckline of a garment, you’re…

I think there is. I’ve had a lot of unsolicited bullshit in my life, but I’ve had men give me genuine compliments that I’ve appreciated too. I think tone is a really big thing as well as no intention of receiving anything in return for your compliment. I’ve also found that I take compliments on specific things much…

I ALMOST FORGOT! Back in middle school, (I was...13/14?) my two friends and I were cornered in the art room after school by the tech ed/wood shop teacher (who had a known habit of looking down shirts). He ACTUALLY asked us to come to his room for “candy,” and when we said no he got angry. We managed to get away, and…

I hear the men I work with all the time talking about how SUUUPER careful they have to be because of sexual harassment laws. What a BURDEN they are.

It is, but if you have even the slightest doubt or hesitation, just don’t.

Ahh Monica. The only Chef in New York who never worked nights, weekends and holidays.