This has been a continuous conversation for several months now. You can jump to defense if you want, but you have no context for the conversation so you’re adding nothing. Also, jujy is an attention whore who just always has to be there to flaunt his allies cred. On a site explicitly created for women, that’s annoying…

“My wife’s Spidey -sense has always tingled about this guy being a creep.”

Oh, surely she stands firm in her belief that “sadly” Perrineau is a lying liar, and that it’s a “shame” what she’s doing to the reputation of woman and teen-girlkind.

Yep! Thanks. As far as SATC and Madonna, I think for all their !women power! shit on Jez, there’s an accepted level of middle aged lady actor/entertainer disparagement encouraged here. It’s like the ship has sailed on middle aged lady coolness and any attempts at publicly living their middle aged lives annoy the youth…

Lol @ Miss B writing her own songs, she hasn’t written a lyric since Bills.

This is objectively true. So far. I am disappointed in her choice because there were so many other incredible options for that part, actors who would have acted the house down, but I won’t begrudge her fans their excitement over her casting. Which is taking a great deal of restraint, but still. ((Are you happy now,…

That’s right. He was vp of programming at Bravo during the years she did My Life on the D-list and her 20 comedy specials. He made a fortune off her. He doesn’t know her now? Watch out, Andy, because she knows you and she’ll take the stage and pour...

Had he known? But he DID know. He just didn’t want to believe her.

Wooooow. That managed to victim blame and ‘but I’m friends with women!’ while still insisting he’s a good guy!!!!

In his response he says he didn’t pick up on her signals. Oh okay, sure dude, more like you intentionally ignored them. What a douche fountain.

QueenCorsetKatana or whatever that person’s name is.

YES! That was one of the threads I was referring to.

Ok all you assholes who didn’t believe me that PP guy was gay? That picture. Right there.

Their presence actively prohibits me from engaging sometimes, but their general attitude makes me almost certain that mentioning it, even in a neutral way, would be a bigger snafu than I am prepared to sign up for.

You’re definitely not the only one. There was a long thread about it close to a year ago and I’ve had several other convos with people other times as well. I’ve always hoped they would knock it off but realistically that won’t happen. I’ve also thought about confronting some of them too. Ugh.

This should have been included in the article IMO. The bro-patriarchy is real and comprises real trash bros sticking together across all spectrums. I fucking hate them with the intensity of a million suns.

Have you noticed their silence on this post? I hope they see this. They’ve been making me uncomfortable for awhile now. I’m relieved to know I’m not alone.

It blows my mind how there are a handful of male commenters who comment ON EVERY FUCKING ARTICLE, usually as soon as it’s published and have no self awareness that maybe they should take a back seat on an expressly women oriented site. Like, feel free to participate but say something when it’s useful or insightful…