Wow, that's incredibly creepy. Sounds like there was a possibility of blackmail there, too.

Not one word about the guy. Not one word. I guess if we don't follow your standards we deserve what we get.

The idea that they were attacked, so to speak, because they were careless.....it's almost like a physics equation to these victim blamers. It's pretty clear that they really think it's okay to do something like this if she was 'careless'.

I find that going, "Nudes of me? When my boobs were two inches higher and my waist a few inches smaller? Bring 'em on!" tends to stop people in their tracks.

Remind me again why it's the responsibility of the victim to control what the attacker does? And apparently this guy knew at least some of the women. He used that trust to gain access to their accounts.

Ah, but there's the Fuji Instax and the polaroid mio. It takes little pictures but Fuji makes film for it and another camera. I've got one and I love it——the pictures are just the right size for one's wallet.

You can get both from guys when you turn them down, sometimes in the same sentence.

These guys are counting on the double standard to do the dirty work for them.

It's very hard to blame the victim? Not hard enough.

"I'm going to slut shame you for your own good" is how I'd sum up that site, but I'm pretty cynical.

You see nothing wrong with that site? "Hey, I'm going to take your photos to shame you because I've thought up a great excuse! It's for your own good."

Huh. I always like being lectured by people who failed to notice that I put "Dudette" there. Leaving out misogyny doesn't change the tenor of the comment at all: using PC and citing the body shaming and shitstorms is kind of a familiar skew.

Dude? Dudette? Anybody who thinks being 'anti-PC' is a valid summing up is an asshole, but I see you've already confirmed that by being condescending on top of it. Congratulations.

So women can't like sex?

Your bit about how you have better grammar in English than many native speakers is similar to something I learned while studying Russian. We learned far more about grammar in Russian than we did in English; my Russian's probably better grammatically, than my English. Why? Because public school sucks.

I was taught—-by native speakers——that learning languages is a talent, closely related to music, and that some people just have it and others don't. Also, I find the assertion that no one can be truly fluent laughable. I know a few people whose lives depend on their ability to be fuent, to pass to native speakers.

Christ, I don't know. We pass them around and trade and stuff. I know I had to learn to reject anything by Beatrice Small and Catherine Coulter, because the former does almost inevitably feature a rape scene in all of her books——and quite often it's not by the hero——-and the latter because her books so frequently…

Huh. I speak two other languages and went to an immersion school when I was 27. Did nothing but study language for five days a week, seven hours a day. Of course, we had to pass a few tests to get in there.

The Tea Baggers probably think 'multilingual' is one of them weird foreign terms for kinky sex.

Jeez, who pissed in your cheerios? Does the honor of romantic novels need to be defended or something?