That nerdy girl is just a hot chick with glasses on, not even remotely equivalent to the nerdy guy in the real GoDaddy ad.

As someone with an actual mental illness, I can confidently say that I have never in my life had the desire to take pictures of people I know and distribute them across the internet for the judgement and derision of others. Sexism is not a mental illness. Neither is being an asshole.

I don't think that was a "masturbation joke." Fairyvexed is calling your "debate exercise" masturbatory in the sense that it is self-indulgent and ultimately going nowhere (I think, don't want to put words in someone else's mouth). You are treating this conversation as if it is purely a hypothetical and interesting…

Does it really? These guys want to do a things to women against their will. That's okay to you?
Also.....you just had to make sure you let us know as about your dickfeels, didn't you?

They don't want consent. They want to know she doesn't want it.

"I feel like the vast majority of these guys are lonely, sad, individuals who have little to no friends and a very slim chance of having normal relations with a woman."

You're minimizing. You are accepting this state of affairs. You practically throw up your hands. Sure, there's your disclaimer.....but those don't matter. They're meaningless. And if you don't get why consent is so important.....

They don't like consent. The allure is doing something to a woman or girl without her permission———-and that's the whole reason. It ought to be worrying.

" They'll only care when they're forced out of their caves and made to answer for what they do."

I honestly think it's the same mindset as rapists: it's not about the sex, it's about gaining power through the domination and disempowerment of a woman. These dudes aren't just trying to get off; they're trying to get off to women without their knowledge or consent and THAT is sexy for them.

Bitter men trashing women for not fucking them on Reddit. What else is new?

I think a lot of these guys get off on the idea that these women are being basically exposed against their will.

Because other dudes defend those dudes on principle, or get defensive, or angry, or impatient with pissed off women who just cannot be allowed to rant, even once, without making sure mens' feefees are considered.

I feel exactly the way you do. I know men (maybe not all, but enough) talk about me in certain ways (positive and negative) and it just makes my skin crawl thinking about it. What do my male coworkers say when I am not there? What about my friends? Ugh.

Thanks but no. The guys who do this and other shit to women are in fact, regular dudes. They've just gotten so used to getting away with it they think it's normal. Calling them names promotes the idea that this stuff is done by "others" and conceals just how common this is.

Women with their breasts out on the internet?! OH NOES! The sluts!

In patriarchal America, porn is you.

I know not all dudes (or even most dudes) are like this, but I have to say— when I read comments like the ones in this article it makes me scared of all of them for a bit. How can people be so awful? How can men who reference wanting to be intimate with someone expect that openness with women when they talk about us…

Jesus i fucking hate men

I'm a virgin for far different reasons but there is so much about this post that I agree with.