same, hate the music, adore her.

So sorry

They like to throw that out there to emphasize that they were tried in the court of public opinion and (in some cases) not in a court of law. Because we know they would have been acquited in a court of law. And therefore are innocent.

Do they define virgin for us? Do they mean just PIV sex?

Most of my fantasies now involve time travel. 

Smashing patriarchy is self care.

In the states we don’t treat women as people. But there is a hierarchy in the relative ‘goodness” of women based on race and class.

because he jerked off on her and that part wasn’t forced? His sexual gratification was at stake! have you no empathy!

Jane Doe by Victoria Helen Stone is cathartic as hell and I strongly urge you read it, bonus points for reading it in the tub. I’m asking my husband to read it.

A lovely frothy mix of racism and misogyny along with believing that somehow John had no agency.

I went from Heartbreak to Pure Joy through menopause and CBD oil. You’re welcome.

My brother and I (both pineapple haters) prefer our cereal to be a thick sludge.

He’s a Korean rapper/actor, doing his national service now. Big Bang is his band. 

I’m lower, fewer clothes please. (And serious question - what is with the giant bows on men’s shirts?There’s a bunch of T.O.P in giant bows 

Bless you.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/worldviews/wp/2016/05/31/the-dalai-lama-says-too-many-refugees-are-going-to-germany/?utm_term=.4c942ae58438  

It is seriously the weirdest thing to feeling my brain being all “Oh you are healthy now - time to start dealing with all the feeling in a constructive way!” I just want my baggage to be a cosmetic bag and not 19 steamer trunks, you know?

It does mean something, that’s why I asked. It actually came up in context of a movie we saw that had an extended rape scene that was pretty triggering.

So this is maybe kind of weird but I realize I’m getting out of a high functioning depression (which started when fucking One Direction of all things helped me with my driving anxiety) I’ve lost a lot of weight in a healthy way (not talking to food about my problems - who knew?) So i’m out of this funk and then got…

I’m binging on Kpop, and fanfic. I have left shame behind.