Do they define virgin for us? Do they mean just PIV sex?

Most of my fantasies now involve time travel. 

Smashing patriarchy is self care.

In the states we don’t treat women as people. But there is a hierarchy in the relative ‘goodness” of women based on race and class.

because he jerked off on her and that part wasn’t forced? His sexual gratification was at stake! have you no empathy!

Jane Doe by Victoria Helen Stone is cathartic as hell and I strongly urge you read it, bonus points for reading it in the tub. I’m asking my husband to read it.

A lovely frothy mix of racism and misogyny along with believing that somehow John had no agency.

I went from Heartbreak to Pure Joy through menopause and CBD oil. You’re welcome.

My brother and I (both pineapple haters) prefer our cereal to be a thick sludge.

He’s a Korean rapper/actor, doing his national service now. Big Bang is his band. 

I’m lower, fewer clothes please. (And serious question - what is with the giant bows on men’s shirts?There’s a bunch of T.O.P in giant bows 

Bless you.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/worldviews/wp/2016/05/31/the-dalai-lama-says-too-many-refugees-are-going-to-germany/?utm_term=.4c942ae58438  

It is seriously the weirdest thing to feeling my brain being all “Oh you are healthy now - time to start dealing with all the feeling in a constructive way!” I just want my baggage to be a cosmetic bag and not 19 steamer trunks, you know?

It does mean something, that’s why I asked. It actually came up in context of a movie we saw that had an extended rape scene that was pretty triggering.

So this is maybe kind of weird but I realize I’m getting out of a high functioning depression (which started when fucking One Direction of all things helped me with my driving anxiety) I’ve lost a lot of weight in a healthy way (not talking to food about my problems - who knew?) So i’m out of this funk and then got…

I’m binging on Kpop, and fanfic. I have left shame behind. 

keep thinking this is a relationship between Nanny McPhee and David Fostter Wallace since I’m not actually sure who these people are. 

God damnit, I’m at work, have a mouthful of ice tea and read that headline and almost chocked to death because of my GUFFAW

I thought that Dan Fogelman movie was about Dan Fogelberg, the soft rock guy and wondered why the hell anyone was making a movie about him...