I mean, imagine how little your life means if the top of your list of things to be proud of is what race you were born into.

Don’t want to go all Jungian, but this looks to me like some kind of regressive infantilism. A bizarre confluence of impotence, rage and obsessive breastfeeding.

I mean, in the sense of being able to eat all the cheese you like, I’d say it isn’t anything I’d turn down if given the opportunity. But still... yeah, that’s a pretty sad thing to hang your hat on for as to why you are superior.

make kids what?

skim heads

Proud whole milk guzzling Jew here.

The signs were always there. We just refused to see it.

What. The. Fuck.

Why prioritize one over another? Your rationale seems somewhat typical of a proponent of Trump’s “why do we have to help refugees? There are plenty of Americans who need help first.” One is not to the exclusion of all others.

Who cares what country they are from? Are American children more important? Maybe she adopts from the same country so her children have a common bond? Or because that is where she has been volunteering for years?

Maybe they changed their minds! Jesus. The comments section at Jezebel has gotten so harsh. And ragging on Demi Moore and Bruce Willis’s kids for not being as attractive as you need them to be. Jezebel and the people commenting on here have started stooping so low, to the point that they think it’s ok to make fun of…

I agree having relatives involved could be nice, but I’ve also seen it personally go badly. Another issue with fostering is that the state gives very high priority to the birth parents so if at some point a biological parent wants the child back that could very well happen (I know there are rights you can sign away…

This. In my 20s, I was 100% certain that I never wanted to have kids. Now that I’ve been married for four years and have done lots of adventurous things with my life and am in my 30s, I’ve decided having a kid might be a-ok after all. It’s all about perspective and where a person is in their life.

Quite possibly but I’m not sure that playing it out in the court system was going to help. I certainly don’t remember there being that many stories about Lourdes going off the rails and she keeps David & Mercy largely out of the press so there is evidence she’s doing a pretty good job.

The problems with the older son actually sound like Madonna makes him toe the line while dad lets him slack off. I don’t think that reflects poorly on her.

And yes, the ultimate bachelor finally giving up and having kids will cause a lot of idiot comments.

He had already been married once, a long time ago. No kids came from that marriage. Maybe he really thought he didn’t want it, but then he met the right person and changed his mind. When you’re in a couple, it’s no longer just about you, etc.

Oh..kay?

Or, perhaps, it’s not a “trap”?

I’ve known exactly two people in my life who did not fuck their spouses before they got married (both were actual virgins). Both were divorced within a few years because of sexual incompatibility.