You’ve articulated something here that I’ve actively been reveling in for the last year or so. I hate hate hate so many styles of ‘women’s professional’ clothes (like, fuck polyester blouses forever) and I’m tall enough to shop in men’s sections without feeling like a kid....so I’ve been leaning in hard to dressing…

YES. THANK YOU. I dress like this, why? Because I actively do not want people ogling me and staring at my goods.

It seems like a good thing that she doesn’t go for something more form-fitting, given that at least one of her co-workers is apparently observing her outfits and noting what “favors” they do or don’t do her...

why do my clothes have to be “flattering?”