I ask people for advice...and then generally do whatever the hell I want. Then why ask for advice, you say? I don't know. I just want more information I guess.

Well I'd say that in this situation you don't really need to be good at breaking up with someone, since he knows what the problem is and knows you've been dealing with it for a long time. Just sit down with him and tell him that you care about him but you're afraid this problem will never end, and you need to go back…

I'd rather see Pete turn into a velociraptor but that would be fine by me. I realized why I don't understand Megan. She seems so innocent and lacking of underhanded motives and it jars me. I want to see her do something bad for once, assuming she doesn't die. I want to see Megan cheat on Don with a young musician.…

Aw, the Depp I used to lust after.

Yes, exactly. It's like, wait a second, what about all of the shit that happened between cave men and now? That doesn't count for anything? Not to mention gay, lesbian and bisexual people get totally shut out of that conversation.

Agreed. I was in an office in a northern state let's say, when a superior used the n word 5 times in order to make a point about how I should expect to hear it in that region upon realizing I was a bit liberal. Would he have used it if a black employee were in the room? I would bet that would never fucking happen.…

I don't doubt that it works. I guess I hoped that there was a way to say "I'm not in control of my drinking" without talking about a higher power but it's good that they allow flexibility in their programs. I wish some of the people I know would go to AA but unfortunately they can't admit it or will only admit to…

I had no idea how tiny Putin was before today. I feel so uninformed. Of all the things I know about foreign policy...I don't know this.

I don't hate cats but the claws...and the litter boxes. At least with dogs there are certain places they can't easily get to and spread their hair but cats hair can get everywhere.

Yeah, this reminds me of when Louis C.K. said on Jon Stewart (after the Tosh controversy) that it had never occurred to him that women were always worried about men on their way home, walking alone. God bless him for talking about it now, but it amazed me that someone in his 40s didn't know that already.

If they say "the universe" can be a higher power, as RabbitCat said fine, I guess, but to me the words "higher power" are distinctly religious to me. It even suggests monotheism since it's just one power.

Gee, Jezebel, thanks for fueling my ambition to have a sweet little puppy despite living in an apartment that doesn't allow dogs.

Bless you sir.

Greta Gerwig, anybody?

YES. I was on a date with someone who was into eve-psych and he tried to give an example of a good study by talking about why women on a college campus didn't want to casually fuck some random guy who asked if they wanted to bone as much as men in the same scenario. He said there was no other possible explanation for…

Everybody's situation is different. For example, some women were not always thin and attractive. At some point they may have looked different than they do now. When some guy approaches them and says that, it might bring them back to that and well...nobody wants to associate with someone who reminds them of a shitty…

There's nothing to it for any women who has an ounce of self confidence. But self-confidence isn't something these men seem to value in women. I don't react to negging or excessive compliments. What I do react to is someone who is capable of starting an easygoing but interesting conversation and can jump from one…

Maybe it is something they're used to hearing, did you ever consider that? There are a lot of guys negging out there, and chances are women have heard it before. Not to mention society is telling us there is always something wrong with us one way or another. I don't know why men don't want a challenge. To converse…

I don't get negging because I can't imagine why anyone puts up with that. It can be fun though because they don't expect you to neg them back. And there is hardly anything I love more than catching a PUA off guard. I really want to try the dance sometime if not for the fact that it's a great way to meet men with a…

The problem with the kidnapping, as others have explained better than I, is that it's this idea that the woman belongs to the male character and he's getting her back as a sort of possession. She's often a girlfriend or wife, though sometimes it's a daughter or sister. And it is a problem that women are seen as more…