I don't know if the best route is to always go to the makeup counters because they can be ruthless barracudas who want you to buy expensive stuff. I don't assume they're trying to help you 100 percent. What I do for work makeup, and I know nothing about your skin tone or hair color, is use Urban Decay Naked basics…

Well we basically agree then. I think she should have mentioned the possibility of a father or partner in parenthood and that's the biggest flaw. I think it's a bit much to say that two children are too much if your partner is equally involved. Maybe I'm taking too much out of my experience as an only child. My mom…

I agree that of course people should do whatever works for them, but is it totally outside of common sense that if you have let's say three or four children, it's going to be pretty hard, committed husband and partner doing equal childrearing included, to focus on work, whatever it is, as you were before (or when you…

Yeah, I always thought the tradition was stupid, but in my case I'm worried it will upset my dad not to walk down the aisle with me if I ever get married. I think I should probably walk with both of my parents to avoid that kind of thing, but the dance? Heck no. I hate doing one dance with everyone watching me but…

Unfortunately a friend of mine's dad died of cancer only a couple months before the wedding, but her mother walked her down the aisle.

I totally forgot Bill Paxton was in Titanic. I thought, "Why would someone of that era be wearing an earring?" And then I was super excited to think maybe it was a thing and I just didn't know. That tells you how much I cared about the 90s scenes in Titanic.

In terms of changing the character of Peter Parker, I was way more annoyed at white Andrew Garfield playing a sort of douchey version of the character, who to me, seemed more like one of the high school bullies. I think that's more offensive than the idea of a black actor playing Peter Parker. It wouldn't change the…

Okey doke, but we can't suddenly change the entire clothing manufacturing business super quickly, you know? Yeah I know men have the big and tall issue and that sucks too. My point is that women have a lot more..variables..to consider and clothing manufacturers don't always take them into account, which makes it…

Yes, this is a great movie with real developed female characters.

A lot of people are telling you that their boyfriends requested more not less hair. And I'm sure some of them still shaved. Nobody I've been with has cared much for either preference, though I'm more likely to shave if I'm seeing a woman. A lot of us don't do one or the other it's all on a range dependent on mood.

But there's a difference between saying I'm just really special and social mores don't affect me and saying, "Yeah, I know this stuff can be the result of peer pressure, and maybe that's why I started but now I prefer it" or some other similar variation. I started wearing makeup out of peer pressure. But I wear bright…

The thing is that for women with large breasts it ain't easy to find clothes, or if you're short it's hard to find good dress pants, so you wear skirts, and just a myriad of problems present themselves because let's face it, women's clothing is shitty in terms of quality compared to men's.

It affects people whether or not you're in the mental health field. People try to insert themselves in it and make judgements regardless, was my point and I shouldn't have made it personal to you. I was simply saying that chubby women might be dangerously under-eating and get praise for it because that's what society…

Fair enough, I'm sure you know more about it than I, but I reacted as someone who has been called anorexic by people who know nothing about me or my diet.

My point is not to say she is healthy at this weight. My point is only about the anorexia, and you can't tell who is anorexic by looking at them. Yes, we think of anorexic people as being super thin but it is a mental disorder as well that is really complicated, and when we think we know what that looks like you're…

Pray tell, how do you know by looking at someone if they're anorexic? A chubby woman could be going through anorexia because she used to be 50 pounds heavier but she is losing it in an unhealthy way and another woman could be eating just as much as the average woman, but her ribs show when she stretches so you think…

Serious girl crush. On the same level as Morena Baccarin, with the elegant neck and model proportions.

She's so goddamn pretty. The jawline is impressive stuff. This is Greek goddess Stana.

I'm not really talking about chance of pregnancy or what this asshole said. I was simply saying rape is not "rare." And yes, I'm sure it's not one in five knows a victim. I work with statistics a lot, and have done a lot of research as a writer on this, and make sure to retain that information before I write it down…

They did actually. And if it had been laid out there, and I heard it, but was too lazy to remember it or pay attention when it was first said, they would have good reason to yell at me. One of the things about Lindy's pieces is that some of them besides this one lay out things very clearly for people who aren't…