*shivers*

Speaking of comic book tee shirts, anybody know where I can get a vintage 1992 Catwoman tee shirt? I would rock that EVERYWHERE.

I couldn't say the majority of men in their 20s feel that way but I think men who are immature in general, whatever age, seem to think women need to be tricked into sex somehow, and if you have sex without any pretense of acting innocent and surprised first, some of them act bewildered by it. I blame men's…

I feel the same way about that stuff. I don't think it makes you a bad girlfriend. The "Do you like that" thing sounds contrived, like something cliche in a porn clip, that's why it's funny. It turns me off or makes me laugh so I have a hard time pretending. If I were in a situation where someone did that a lot I…

I'm not keen on actual words unless they're necessary to communicate what we want to do but I like to hear sounds from men. It's particularly weird if he's completely silent and you're loud as hell.

That's quite possible, but I wonder how many women out of all of those who scream like that are just performing. I would imagine they would sound more like Meg Ryan in the deli than a dolphin if they were faking...because who aims for that?

lol. It wasn't a conceited humblebrag, dude. I don't think I'm so hot that no one can take their eyes off me. I'm talking about the dialogue of street harassment, where if you DO get the attention of men and you say you want to be left alone they say you asked for it by wearing a tank top or skirt. It isn't about how…

I meant to spell rapist not racist. Damn autocorrect.

Oh boy. Nuance is your friend. I AGREE that having a penis doesn't make you a racist. It's cultural forces that encourage as I said SOME men, not all, to ignore protestations or negative reactions from women, and in some cases, rape. If cultural forces told women it was okay to ignore what men were saying and just do…

Yeah, I'm sure you're right. My buying bras and underwear there has a lot to do with routine more than quality as I've been hooked since 16 or so. If I could afford to spend anything it would be Stella McCartney lingerie.:-(

Considering the wide age range, not to mention weight range, I see in Victoria's Secret, why not keep a couple "older" models and and get a plus sized model? I honestly don't even know why women past size 14 or so bother with the store since I never see any underwear but extra small, small, medium and large on the…

Too tall for short people clothes and too short for "normal people" clothes. Don't I know it. One more reason to hate pants in particular.

This is why I say, "Give me a break" to straight men who complain how awful it is to see and not touch or see and not speak to or see and not eye-fuck. If I didn't think it made the person feel icky, sure I would stare. I feel bad if I look for more than a few seconds really. Probably because I know how it feels!

You obviously never read the study on how some men would admit to doing things that were coercive and forcible as long as the word rape wasn't included. The thing about rape is that it isn't usually something men plan on like some Bond villain. Men don't usually jump out from bushes. They are told that it's okay to…

Yes, that's definitely it. She looks kind of like my 5 foot 3 inches self not a supermodel. Petite women of the world, unite!

It's good to know there is some mutual understanding between them instead of him just hanging out with a random girl and pulling her over. It doesn't mean automatic consent obviously and I'm pretty sure you know that but yeah the context helps.

I don't think he is encouraging rape. It just plays into a mentality that women don't really know what they want. I don't think he meant to send that message but teenage boys are impressionable when it comes to advice on girls.

I get your point and I'm not saying people don't ever use teasing language but I think it does him less good BECAUSE he doesn't understand body language as well as experienced people. He would be more likely to ignore what the girl is really saying because he can't read it in my opinion. I think it's always better to…

Guys like the interviewer are the only reason I don't look forward to spring. It's hot out, I get to wear a nice comfortable dress (PANTS ARE THE DEVIL) but then the ogling happens and I'm supposed to feel shitty for tempting the men by wearing less clothing. It's hot out! Walking around in NYC on hot pavement is…

I know you were trying to help which is admirable and I'm kind of sorry you're getting heat for it but when you say that a woman's negative reaction is "playful" and to ignore the words..it sounds like the classic "She'll put up a fight but she really wants the dick" mentality.