How about responding to "What was that?" It doesn't seem like a positive reaction.

You did say "slightly painful" if you're the writer in question. I'm not sure why it has to be painful.

No no no. Slightly painful is never a good move, especially when you're trying to make a good first impression.

It amazes me that he has not had a negative reaction to LIP BITING. A girl bit me in the lip so hard it left a bruise (I wore dark lipstick for a week) and you can bet I didn't see her for third date. I mean, you just don't do that unless it's really soft or you've agreed to rough stuff.

Yeah, it's the city. It's diverse. People are more likely to overcome these things when diversity surrounds them. I don't really get your point. I didn't say NO white person eve dates someone of another race or that NO asian person ever dates a black person. Yes, a few people aren't racist, so no one is anymore! Way…

Wow. You're down to comparing the marginalization of groups of people based on their skin color to not eating certain kinds of fruits. Fantastic. You're right man. People's preferences exist in a vacuum and have nothing to do with a history of racism and bigotry. Completely separate. Slavery happened? Whaaat?…

Whhhhhaaaaattt.

Hmm. Googles "stores that sell pasties."

Okay, cool. Hispanic people are not a race. I don't get to determine that. Everyone I know who calls themselves hispanic thinks it is a race since they are treated as a race. And I know there are white and black Hispanics. It's my ENTIRE fucking point. Race is fluid. Race is a dumb concept to begin with as our…

It has to do with my insecurities, how exactly? It really does baffle me. You're in an interracial marriage, I get it. So you MUST be right. I think it's easier to believe that these things don't have anything to do with racism because it's sucks to think about it. Way back when I never thought I or anyone else…

Great comparison! And red wine as well.

B girl here. The nips are the number one issue for me too. And working out. Otherwise they are free range in the house, roommates be damned.

I don't know who to believe anymore about the bra/no bra question. First I hear it's good to wear a bra, then bad, then good again, now braless is the way to go. I guess I'll stick to doing what feels right! (workplace excluded.)

Love this gif!

I don't think anyone is saying they don't "see" race. But let me put it this way. If you're not racist, you're an idiot. There, I gave you a pass. You're an idiot if you don't have the imagination to consider you might meet a really hot woman of another race. If you look at all of the beautiful actresses and actors…

No one is forcing anyone to be tolerant. People can be as intolerant as they want. And I have the freedom to call it racist. Besides I doubt a woman of color or man of color wants to date a racist asshole who is not really into them anyway. They can announce themselves and stay in their corner. The homophobia…

Yes, this is what I can't understand.

Real possibility.

Am I the only person who thinks they do have some comfortable bras? I know a lot of them are anything but. There are enough them that are practical but cute to keep me coming back. Tee shirt bras and demi cups that aren't extreme push-ups are the best.

I was first catcalled at 12, maybe because I developed faster, but still I'm no Christina Hendricks. It was a pretty shitty thing to deal with. Young girls have it rough because at that age you don't know if you should feel complimented or embarrassed since you've been told from birth that attention from boys is…