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2o to 21 year olds are worried about not being hot anymore? What is going on? I thought being sexually experienced and fully developed was a good thing in college? What is the world coming to....

The picture didn't show up on my screen. Yeah, who in the world uses the term "beta-male" when talking about anything but wolf packs?

Not knocking plaid shirts. I like plaid, especially in the fall.

I think the dating "preferences" thing on Match and other sites tell people, "Don't worry, it's not racism! It's a preference!" And people get annoyed when I point this stuff out. Just the other day a really liberal friend of mine asked if I were "into" Asian guys, as if I were "into" Thai food or something. It

We are both speaking from credible life experiences, I guess they're just different experiences. Maybe it depends where you live. Being in New York, men with certain careers don't stand out to me anymore. But for some women in the city, maybe that just means they aim even higher for the lawyer who works for a better

It isn't only a drive for beauty though, which is important. I really am concerned about melanoma as an Irish chick.

Give me a break. Women care just as much about the physical stuff as the men do. I've met so many lawyers, doctors, Wall Street guys, successful people who make decent money. That impressed me when I first arrived to New York but after a few weeks, the saturation of these men made me look for rarer qualities, like

I don't get the J.A.P. thing either. I know so many spoiled W.A.S.P. princesses (and princes) that I just don't get why Jewish women are singled out. I know a good number of Jewish women, and they're all pretty laid back, but I can't speak for entire group of people based on just a few, and to me that's the whole

Ugh, yes. And it somehow bothers me more that his voice wasn't nearly as creepy as I expected. False advertising! Though the pedophile glasses kind of hit that message home.

Exactly. He's not attractive but not unattractive, in my opinion.

Whoa, I was not aware of the phrase "too urban to touch." And I'm sure Kate Upton wants to date a bunch of racists post-Diddy. She's missing out!

The funny part is that she covered her breasts at the end like she was embarrassed. Weird for a chick who has her breasts out all the time. I am not saying that in a Church Lady way, it's just funny.

Agreed. I was obsessed with Catwoman when the 1992 version came out. I can't believe my parents let me watch it at that age. But Michelle Pfeiffer and Anne Hathaway did bang-up jobs. I still maintain that Halle Berry did not have the right personality, even though it was badly directed. She isn't an actress I think of

I guess you know more classists than I do. That's all I can say.

I'm saying it's not the same as lying about your background. Your lying about who you are to get laid because you think it offers you a better chance. You wear makeup because everyone else is wearing makeup and if you don't you will likely look like a troll in comparison, not because it gives you an advantage.

I would say the difference is, that if every woman was not allowed all of these enhancements, we'd all be judged on our natural beauty, but because almost all of us DO use these enhancements no less pretty girl has an advantage over the pretty girl either, because we're all wearing makeup. The pretty girl has the same

It's simple though. If you don't want offend her, you don't have to lie about your background you just talk about safe subjects like "God, school is hard." and "What classes are you taking?", dull stuff that I've seen graduate students ask each other promptly before going home with each other. I will carefully push

Okay, but it if they want to convince them to have sex with THEM, why would they all act like the same guy? If it were me, and I thought I had to take on another identity to get someone to have sex with me, I'd pick something more exotic than what they're exposed to day in and day out. And it also seems like the man

The thing that annoys be about this kind of thing is that it assumes women aren't down to bang unless you lie to them. Young women have sex drives too, obviously. Some young women probably find it attractive or mysterious if someone came from a different background, like a Texas farm boy. I know I've met so many

I don't know where they get the style of dress for Jewish men from, but I've see Jewish men wear a shit ton of plaid. Recently I went to a party filled with Jewish guys from upper class backgrounds and they were ALL wearing plaid.