Co-signed. The best sex I've ever had involved smaller penises. Not the case for everyone because everyone is different but it was nice not to worry about the pain.

Ugh, what is it with people? You're exactly right. Buy a prostitute or if you're creepy, a sex doll, if you want to control a person. I have not met a single docile Asian woman either. But I do think the preference thing is odd. And are you saying women are more cool with their race being fetishized after they have…

I have some lovely cream colored interview shoes (flats and heels) that I think would go with navy well. And on the black and blue, I recently wore cerulean blue with a black dress and black jacket, and my interviewers (both men) didn't seem appalled at my choice. I doubt they noticed.

Agree to disagree then. I think what you do in your personal life can be far more telling than what you do professionally or say in theory. But I know you disagree so we'll have to leave it at that.

I don't know, if I saw someone making that motion of taking earbuds off, I would think that maybe I I dropped something I was carrying on the floor or something. I wouldn't necessarily assume he was hitting on me. And if he was, I'd be kind of annoyed. Good looking men seem to be confounded as to why women don't…

Oh my god, dude or dudette, I did not say I am trying to say "An individual does not have a right to choose." Where did you get that from? They have the right to put their penis or vagina wherever. I don't have to agree and I also have an individual right to tell them I think they're racist. What's wrong with having…

Here is Sweetiegate from 2008. Not outraged when it happened but a tad annoyed. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/05/14/oba…

I agree he generally has a great record. But do you remember when he said "Hold on a second there, sweetie?" to a reporter? It's not horrible but it's a little condescending.

So you walk away. Are we supposed to be upset if you do?

I'm not imposing my views nearly as much as I am trying to counteract hundreds of years of racist bullshit. Dating websites have told us these are just "preferences" because they care more about making money than anything else. That condones the idea that leaving out an entire race of people from your dating pool in…

Garkus always writes the same thing on these boards. "Oh no, I can't give compliments anymore." Bar=appropriate. What did you not get? And yeah, like Bex, I think we'll get by without them.

By saying that you're saying the opposite of what you said before, which is that you believe people of any race can be attractive. I guess you just meant not attractive TO YOU. I am saying there is a huge diversity of faces and body types within a single race, so when you say people can have a preference against an…

It's fine if you happen to not be attracted to one individual who happens to be of another race. You don't have to be attracted to every person of every race. That is not MY point. I don't see how what I said about their being attractive, intelligent women of every race ISN'T the point. Don't people want to date…

I should also explain that not preferring to engage sexually with someone of the same or opposite sex has nothing to do with a phobia of any kind. My saying I was bisexual was not to say that everyone should be. Maybe someone else can explain it to Bosman123 because I have some work to do.

Funny, you say that. I date women as well. I have to switch back and forth because Match doesn't let me pick two sexes at once. But yeah, it's not okay in 2013, to exclude AN ENTIRE RACE from your dating prospects. I may want to date another agnostic because I don't want to raise our kids under a religion ( if goes…

Yeah, I've noticed this. A little disturbing.

YES. I can't believe I had to engage in a "discussion" with a couple guys or gals who think it's okay to discriminate in dating solely based on race. Why I have to explain this in 2013...I have said on my Match profile "Not looking for anyone who writes anything but "No preference" in their race preferences and STILL…

I really feel for Betty. I can identify with her cool demeanor since I'm not an outwardly warm person and feel as if I'm always criticized for it. Don often broods but society doesn't judge him for a melancholy or expressionless face the way they do Betty. They assume Don has a right to be serious and Betty doesn't.…

How is disingenuous? I thought you said yourself that she IS attractive but in a DIFFERENT way than women previous to her. It basically sums up what you've been saying.

I totally get why it's hot and useful. I just don't like blanket statements about what women want in porn. There are some things that obviously cater to men, the facelessness, the lack of attractiveness when you do see their faces, the power dynamic where men are always pushing the women around, never asking before…