Many people in my family were extremely skinny. People would have us over for dinner and pressure us into eating more than we wanted. Random strangers would tell us what our BMI was and how it was unhealthy etc etc. It’s nuts. Also for all the “fashion designers only design for size 0" business, the women in my family…

definitely dodged a bullet!

Saying “But I love you without makeup” subtly trying to get you to not wear heels/boots etc etc etc. Yup. I’ve seen my fellow men do this shit and I have to do a sit down with them every time I see it. It’s ridiculous. And I mean it’s also just a shitty feeling. I’ve dated someone who I thought was gorgeous, and she…

There’s also just this culture of new girlfriends being jealous of exes. Something I’ve never understood... My wife is pretty cool most of the time but she’s always weary if we run into one of my exes. I’m only friends with one though so that makes it easier.

Yeah. There was this girl I had a secret crush on for years. One day she showed up and wanted to hook up. So we were hooking up for awhile. Then she wanted to be a little more public and her friends immediately shot that down saying that successful couples always have to be within a couple points of attractiveness to…

I want a new car so badly, but I told myself I would never get a new car unless the current car becomes a burden to maintain. The problem is that I have a 2007 prius. It just KEEPS GOING. It has 150k miles and still has stock breaks. I asked the dealership to just get on with it and replace them, and they said I still…

my company issued a statement to employees with no reference to the law change, but just a reminder that the company complies with all federal laws, and it had a link to our employee handbook, which still states that showing positive for MJ will get you terminated. So passive aggressive. That said, HR has said off the…

Uhggggg I want to like Ashley but she could be SO awful sometimes. I stewed over the decision for minutes but the little devil on my shoulder was like “you know who it has to be” and I sent her off every time after that.

Yeah it really comes out of nowhere. Like a reddit thread or something.

Lots of people choose mom (liara). I had one playthrough with space racist, and my space secretary was pretty great, but the raw sexual tension between man-shep and Alenko is impossible to ignore. So impossible that they made a romance possible in ME3.

Wife, so she’s apparently pretty cool with it. Hahaha!

For NSA sex? Thin, Chubby, does not matter. Seriously. Dudes are mega assholes about such things when it comes to introducing someone to their friends, but not for NSA.

Were you the one who seduced me in my early 20s? hahah.

guys catch feels way too much. It’s weird because I’ve entered into something I wanted to be casual, and the girl caught feels, so I assumed it would never happen to me, but then I hooked up with a girl and afterward she was like “we can do this again if you want but don’t catch feelings” and it hurt my feelings!…

That’s kind of bullshit. Parents know. They just try to cover it up or hide it or excuse it. Most people aren’t sexting. Most teens aren’t having sex. You can look at your kid and know whether they’re doing shitty things. You might not know exact specifics, but generalities are enough to take action and better…

Recently my parents were pearl clutching about the sexting “epidemic”. I said it’s been a problem for a long time. They said I had never been a teenager when this was a thing because we didn’t have smart phones back then. Setting aside that we still had camera phones, I think everyone forgets that we had scanners,…

Oh I know logically that it wasn’t about me at all and completely about the other person, but when you’re low, you turn to dark thoughts.

thats because ghosting is bullshit. Ghosting is the least human thing you can do to a person. I was ghosted multiple times and a few of them still haunt me from time to time. I’m happily married now and have no desire to go after anyone else, but when I’m feeling down I turn to one specific memory of being ghosted and…

I have a serious soda problem as well. I can’t seem to kick it. I feel like I’ve gone to a very healthy lifestyle food wise....EXCEPT soda. Specifically coke. The weird thing is that I hate sugar. I don’t like cake, I don’t like candy other than the occasional tiny bite around halloween. I got nothing against it, but…

People who post merely for stars are problematic. Not sure if that has to do with a gender/sexuality divide or not though.