Tea Tree oil on a mucus membrane?! NONONONONO.

I agree. I like giving head because I like making my partner feel good. If it didn't make him feel good, I would not do it. Like, if he wasn't there, I would not long for the feel and taste of a penis or semen. But I do love the experience because he enjoys it. Surely that's fine and not based in shame?

This kind of reminds me of the idea that a girl should swallow if you really loves the guy. Certainly there is a happy medium between shame and asking people to adore your odor?

No, none of us imagine that, but that is part of the image of masculinity - that a real man can find pussy anytime he wants (and of course, he wants pussy bc Real Men (TM) are straight).

Sorry, no. You are right until the end there, but that kind of language really isn't appropriate or necessary. You prove no point by being just as bad yourself.

Surely none of us are really imagining that men just walk out of their apartments and get sex, are we? That would be just as misguided as the belief of some guys who think OKC is a sexual playground ruled by women.

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i hate reading articles like this because you know they'll show up on an MRA site and the criticisms will be totally valid. A Jezebel article should not be making me side with them

The answer to your question in the first paragraph is: No, I have never thought that. There are many reasons why men and women use sex toys and "because they can't get the real thing" isn't the only one. We are all grown-ups around here and I thought most people who hang out in this site would at least understand…

Hey, let's not bring in gendered slurs.

That was too much man. The intro is totally of base but "cunt" isn't called for.

Gloria just lost her "feminism liberates men badge".

This whole article is a misguided disaster. I honestly expect better. I'll bet Erin owns a vibrator. What a chairsniffer.

Here! Here! I used to work in a sex shop and it was actually girls who bought the tengas and fleshlights for their boyfriends who where about to deploy.

Shaming men (and women) for using sex toys is not cool.

"what kind of a lonely fuck would use one of those"

I like my vibrator just fine, despite having perfectly well-functioning hands. I don't know why guys should be so much different.

It makes you wonder how a post that reads "Ever seen a blog post about a weird sex toy designed to simulate the feeling of a penis and thought, what kind of a lonely fuck would use one of those? Probably some weirdo who can't get it from a real person?" would be received here.

So women using dildos are lonely freaks too? How about vibrators?