Okay, Akimbo. Just because I may see my own people as relatives, doesn't mean I was conditioned to see white people as more viable romantic partners. But idc anymore. Thanks for your contributions!

I've never put down anyone of my own ethnicity. I even said I've found people of my own ethnicity to be attractive. I simply grew up in a small town where everyone of my ethnicity was seemingly related to me. Now, I associate people of my ethnicity to be family members and there is something weird to me about dating…

The problem is… Why does everyone else care who I love?

lol. okay, Julian. Clearly I already knew WHY people like you love to tell people like me how to feel about our relationships. Well, I'm sorry…. As you pointed out, you only like to have an opinion on OTHER black people who date outside of their race. So I guess I'll wait for the other Asians…. CLEARLY my original…

Lol. I am getting upset b/c you straight up said that the self-hate label isn't given to people who JUST date people outside their race, but given to people who only want to date outside of their race and refuse to date their own. You're basically proving my notion that people who call me self-hating just by seeing me…

One. Last. Time. I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT THOSE PEOPLE. You keep turning this into "I only hate people who admit to hating themselves." I DON'T hate myself. I HAVE dated other Asians. I've dated Asian, Black, and White. I find people of ALL races to be attractive. I simply have a "type" and that "type" is not "my kind."…

That's my point. A minority can do NOTHING to be labeled as self-hating, but as soon as they have Bfs or Gfs that are white, some people just start making assumptions about them. Look at Tamera Mowry on The Real. She has literally been brought to TEARS recounting the many times she's been called "the white man's…

I can relate SOOO well to this. I've never been called a coconut (Funny term) but i've been called a self-hating brown person before. I have a type, and that is not indian. I'm not really sorry for it. I like other asians, and I've found other asians to be attractive many times, they just aren't my general type. If a…