Okay, what about this? We've already taken Eminem and in addition we'll take Nugent if you'll take Alan Keyes, Allen West, and Tyler Perry. It''ll be hard to convince some black folks to give up Perry, but I think I can make a good case. Do we have a deal?

I fully get your point. You don't want black people to be able to do anything that white people can't do. Furthermore, you want to be part of the discussion that decides whether or not black people use that word and it irks you that black people don't care what you think.