Even if this is true, and I sort of think it is—at least the part about buying things, my wedding was still the best day of my life. I cannot explain how meaningful it was to have so many people who loved and cared about my husband and I in the same room dancing to Madonna. I had so much fun, and it was completely…

Thank you for saying this. As a bride to be, I am so torn between the lady in me saying, “Whatever. Yeah. Sure, I guess I’m excited, but it’s such a Hallmark/Wedding Industry thing blah blah blah” and the lady in me saying, “I am EXCITED to marry this man and have a big ol’ party with all our friends and families to…