You should talk to someone,anyone, if you need to about your own abusive experience.

You don’t have to get it, because it is not about you. Where’s your empathy for the innocent victims here?

Please don’t speak for EVER.

Your lack of knowledge on how sexual predators work is galling, and every time someone posts some apologia like this it harms survivors and keeps them from coming forward, which gives predators more license to operate.