When I was 14/15, I had a huuuuge crush on the son of a family friend who was 19/20. I would have hit all kinds of milestones with this guy if he had let me. But, you know, he ignored my crush, kept me at arms’ length, etc., and then we became pretty good friends when I was in college.

Exactly! People in their mid-twenties who hang out with 14 years olds, and have sex with them are not good people. They are preying on someone who does not have the maturity to fully understand that they are being victimized.