Everyone in my family is short. My brother (5'6", in his 40s at the time) said to me after his divorce that he was astonished to find that women didn’t really care about his height. He said the two things women talked about wanting from men were kindness and a sense of humor. I pointed out that I could have told him…

If incompetent police are going to rethink the profession, that’s a win for everyone!

“Women are generally more upfront about this than any physical preference men might have.”

I mean, minimalist women that don’t care about furniture do exist - I’ve met plenty of them. If a gal goes to your place and thinks you’re less desirable because you don’t have a lot of furniture - well, great! She probably wasn’t the one! What a time-saver!

When we say we like emotional intelligence, maybe believe that? Confident men tend to have charisma, which is magnetic for most strangers, but what’s your plan after that? Confidence increases your likelihood of getting into a relationship, but high EQ is what maintains it.

I hadn’t heard of that excuse for making a date pay for you and think it’s kind of dumb (I’d say paying for your date should be strictly voluntary). However, while you may not have asked her to wear makeup, you didn’t have to...

Oh oh!

Yeah, this is really weird. You (by which I mean the OP) don’t need to have a checklist of 10-12 qualities that all women are looking for. Just don’t be a total asshole, take care of basic hygiene, and be willing to let connections develop naturally. Go out with friends and have a good time, and if you meet someone…

You could have 100 women write down 10 things they are looking for from their ideal partner, compile that data and create a list of 10 or 12 things that women are looking for, become the ideal embodiment of those things, make it your life’s work to make sure that you have those 10 or 12 characteristics, and you can…

Bingo. It’s PUA/MRA logic. Guys are told to swipe right on every woman on Tinder, rather than actually look at their profiles and see if it’s someone they might actually be able to form an emotional connection with. 

I can’t say for sure, but I think the connection is that they’re spray-hitting. If all women are interchangeable objects, then hey, why not just try for as many as you can in the hope of hitting one who says yes? That’s my theory.

Happily married man here.

This is why it always cracks me up when manosphere guys try to use fear tactics on women, and tell us we’re useless without a man and need to lock one down quickly before we “hit the wall.” It’s such obvious fear-based projection. Finding a man is as easy as falling off a chair for most women. Men are the ones in…

Whether she didn’t have the same experience, or she did but doesn’t want to publicly relive it, it’s Margaret Qualley’s decision to be involved or not in the suit. Confronting her in public like this is abusive and counter-productive.

Welp, you can’t uproot your kids and move to another continent and put massive distance between them and a bonded parent that they were used to having in their lives every day, and then say you are acting in said children’s best interests. If this really is Wilde’s intention, I think Sudekis was right to serve her…

Players gonna play? Haters gonna hate? I have heard those phrases together more times than I can count. Its been in memes and put on t-shirts and been in general use without attribution for years before Swift wrote the lyrics. I read that it was one of the reasons the first suit was dismissed. I can reasonably see…

It was a sad moment when I had to physically dump out 30 lbs. of rice; we’d already eaten 20 of them when we realized the bag wasn’t good anymore. 

it sounds like you didn’t store the rice properly after opening it. instead of keeping a 50 lb bag you separate it into smaller ziplock bags so you can reseal it and each portion has less time interacting with the air. you can reuse the ziplocks as well. I use this method with pasta as a portion control measure (I’m…

Her interview on The Eric Andre Show was tremendous

Something I just realized after finishing this episode: Jimmy is always at his most vengeful when people attempt to hold themselves accountable. Note how his true rage at Howard started when Howard confessed that he felt responsible for Chuck’s death. When Kim comes in to sign the divorce settlement, his performance…