I’m getting really sick of the stream of evil speedsters.

The benefit is respect. Either you get some, or you ditch a person who isn’t going to give you the basic respect you deserve which increases self respect. It’s a win either way in my book. Relationships with people who can’t respect you are not worth your time, no matter who that person is.

I think if they agreed to store his things for a period of time but destroyed the porn, he will probably win the case. You can’t agree to store someone’s stuff and then destroy some of it.

I think if the parents decide to not speak to their son over this lawsuit they were shitty parents and he’s better off without…

I thought Danger Island was great. 

I’m not saying to cut off all contact, I’m saying they should be held responsible and going to court is the only way that’s going to happen. 

Shitty behavior is shitty behavior and people should be held responsible for that.

It’s fine not to like porn. It’s not ok to go through someone’s stuff and selectively throw out the things you don’t like.

You are obligated to house 12 boxes of porn if you say you will allow the son to store his stuff there until he gets a new place.

You don’t get to just throw it away. If you find the porn and…

Anti-vaxxers are idiots but I still don’t think we should be ordering people to get vaccinations if they don’t want them. I support laws that mandate them for admission to public schools, but just an outright order for everyone is not acceptable.

The fact that they had no problem storing all of his other things demonstrates this isn’t true. They did not consider any of it abandoned property, THEY DON’T LIKE PORN.

These parents are assholes for destroying someone else’s stuff. Claiming something is abandoned property also means you had to have told the owner of…

I don’t get people who think you should overlook bad behavior because people happen to be related to you. 

I had a joint from a local place recently that was flower, keef, and hash oil with some terpenes that made it taste like blueberries. Greatest thing I ever smoked.

You should have just told your sister-in-law she was being an idiot.

I think it’s also important to pick your battles. Frankly, just saying he doesn’t want to wear the coat should be enough. YOU are not the one who is going to be cold without it, so a warning that that choice might not be the best one due to cold is all that I think should happen there from the get go. 

Everyone should be playing Root!

https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/get-rid-of-tips-and-lose-your-best-servers/2018/02/28/0756866c-1b32-11e8-98f5-ceecfa8741b6_story.html?utm_term=.84818a8e3f64

And don’t give me that shit about weak bargaining position. Servers PREFER the gamble. Most of the restaurants that moved away from a non tipping model cited good employees quitting because they preferred to work for tips.

That’s your opinion, you are welcome to it.

I say when restaurants and servers knowingly decide to do work understanding and ACCEPTING that not everyone will tip, there is no moral obligation to tip. That acceptance invalidated your dumbfuckery. It’s super dumb to say something is immoral when someone consented to it.

I…

It only matters what the servers and restaurants accept.

They are accepting, on every level, doing the work for no tips.

The fact that everything is consented to, is what you can’t weasel out of. It entirely invalidates all your stupid arguments.

You can’t seem to grasp that that acceptance applies socially and morally as well as legally.

Again, that’s what YOU can’t weasel out of. 

We both also know that premise includes an understanding and acceptance of the fact that not everyone will tip and tips are VOLUNTARY.

That’s what YOU can’t weasel out of.