I live in San Antonio and we have a large Sikh community here. Maybe it’s not that large actually and I just have a lot of Sikh friends but anyways, there was scholar who went to my university and came back to talk to us when we were freshman. Apparently one of the first retaliatory acts of violence after 9/11 was the…

I hope this isn’t too intrusive but I found out about a year ago that my best friend was raped at a party and I’m going to be spending time with her again this NYE. She told me when she was drunk and upset, last year, and she’s not a very emotional person and doesn’t like to talk about intimate things, a product of…

I’ve been in a long term relationship since before Tinder was invented so I know nothing but you have to pay for it?!

I think my son is also very handsome. Especially when he sleeps :D

My mom is a special ed pre-school teacher and I have NO idea how she does it. Not only does she have 20+ kids in the morning and afternoon but more than half are special needs on top of it. It’s a rough, rough job. I think she’s a hero basically.

True story my little brother used to hide his half dissolved/sucked on Flintstones vitamins in the couch because he didn’t want to eat them. We found literally hundreds of them when he was about five and we got a new couch.

You must not be from the south because if I forget to send a thank you card for everything I guarantee I’ll get a sideways look or passive aggressive comment in the future.

OMG THIS!!!! My mom has done this for my dad and brother for their ENTIRE LIVES! I had to write all of my own thank you cards after birthdays and christmases but god forbid my dad or brother have to. She wrote every card and remembered every birthday and anniversary and special event for everyone important in her life…

Oh god I don’t even live with my boyfriend and he brings his stuff to my house and then asks me where it is. Like, I don’t know? They are your tennis shoes and I don’t know where you put them in my house. Am I a magician? Does he think I’m a magician? It is seriously so aggravating. I know he doesn’t act that way at…

I live in San Antonio and we have the closest clinics to a lot of women living in the valley but it is a poor part of Texas and in Texas you can’t get same day abortion, you have to be counseled, and you can’t drive yourself afterwards so it’s really hard for a lot of women to even make it work logistically. Plus,…

Have you ever looked into a waterless shampoo? Burt’s Bees has a great one!

My boyfriend goes for just a garter and thigh highs. I’ve tried to do more but he’s a they type of guy that when he finds something he likes he sticks to it. Like chipotle! Pretty sure he eats there at least once a day.

I’m in the greys so no one will probably ever read this but I do have a Santa related story i feel its appropriate to share here.

Fun story, I dislocated a rib catching a flyer in cheer (which is NOTHING compared to some of the injuries I’ve seen in person i.e. a broken neck) and it was so painful. I can’t even tell you. I toughed out back pain for three days in college before I went to trainer (so I was walking to class wearing a backpack) and…

I did competitive cheer and cheered in middle school, high school and college and I have to say that even in a competition setting they weren’t so strict as to say that everyone’s hair had to be exactly the same. Maybe that has changed since 2008 when I last did competitive but it was never that bad. Yes we all wore…

I made varsity cheer and I didn’t even show an interest until 7th grade so no worries. Granted I had a history in dance but I didn’t do competitive until I hit high school and I made varsity cheer freshman year. If that’s important to you or your daughter or son when they’re older I mean. It was great and I loved it…

my bff has beautiful, curly hair and I’m so jeal. My bff when I was little (also a curly haired young lady) told me that eating breadcrust (EW! when you’re five!) would make your hair curly so I ate the ENTIRE loaf of bread’s bread crust. Sadly, it didn’t make my hair curly. #FLATHAIR4LYFE

I’m gonna do my first million dollar wedding this spring! Flowers are expensive.

Y’all don’t even know. This is also her third wedding to the same man. They’ve been divorced twice. She’s a sweetheart she just doesn’t live in the same world we do. #thirdtimesacharm

I’m building a floral wall for one of my brides. It is going to be 8’x25’ of solid hydrangea to cover a hill she doesn't like (you can see the dirt!) and it will cost her about $15,000 after labor and everything.