You can think about your partner’s pleasure and want them to have orgasms while still being unable or unwilling to do certain sex acts. Lots of acts cause orgasm, and most people aren’t up for doing at least a few of them.

Yeah, Tracy’s underlying attitude on this subject is kind of ugly. And I hate the way she forces the equivalence between “woman is willing to permit vaginal penetration until man has orgasm” and “man is willing to perform cunnilingus until woman has orgasm.”

Yup. Stevenson is just a person making choices and accepting their consequences. If Lloyd is likewise able to find a sex partner who doesn’t like receiving oral sex (there are certainly women out there who don’t) or is able to deal with being single, I don’t see why he shouldn’t make the sexual choices that seem right…

By not sucking dick, Stevenson has prevented no man from still getting off via sex. By not going down on women, Lloyd has effectively refused to give women orgasms from sex, while ostensibly continuing to get them for himself.

“But one “bad” experience is no reason to never try again.”

This is why Alison Stevenson is a hero, and William Lloyd is the exact opposite.

By not going down on women, Lloyd has effectively refused to give women orgasms from sex, while ostensibly continuing to get them for himself.