I work in a shelter for homeless women. Bless you for your really useful donations.

All I hear from her is “I’ve still trying to cope with what happened to me”.

Weirdly enough, the only way to get a good photo of Nana Harpy is when she is about to eat a Jim Dandy.

Chopped salad, bacon, blue cheese, avocado, romaine lettuce, tomato, chicken and pecans, with a vinaigrette. I know it’s pretty bad, but I love it.

A think about being an DV/SA advocate is that sometimes our clients are jerks. Like it doesn’t mean I’m not going to help you, but having been assaulted doesn’t make someone nice, or educated about trauma.

Too many people know. I think the response depends on the person it happened to.

After being with one of my clients while she called her Mom, who was the most victim blaming person I have ever dealt with, I kind of snapped at my client. I told this college aged girl to look at my face and how serious I was when I told her it wasn’t her fault. I told her next time those feeling creep up, to…

Is she shaming other people who have experienced SA, heck yes. Is it because she hasn’t dealt with her own asssault? I can’t say for sure, but all signs point to yes.

It’s blame yourself or confront the fact that someone who was supposed to love and care for you destroyed that trust. One is the hard truth, the other a slightly more palatable lie.

Internalized misogyny is a fucker. Also, you know it wasn’t your fault, is doesn’t always feel that way, but I promise you, that it’s the truth.

Honestly, this attitude is very common from people who have been assaulted. When I responded to hospital calls, they would spend a lot of time thinking and critiquing their own actions. It’s horrible to think, but it’s sometimes easier to blame yourself than to confront the reality that a gang of men decided to…

My grandmother said that my grandfather looked more dignified in his coffin then he did in life.

Oh he says her “arse is full of farts” The man had a scatological fetishes.

That’s because this is one of the few that doesn’t mention his obsession with her farts. He also called her a fuck bird, which I need to add to my roster.

Sounds about right.

I hope this smug SOB rots, and the survivor gets all the help and support she needs.

Now, I am very aware of how problematic Courtney Love can be. However trying to raise a child in the spotlight, after the father very publicly commits suicide, sounds very trying, and something you don’t really get over.

Ugh. Just ugh. If girls with integrity are hard to find these days. what about guys who aren’t judgmental patriarchal assmuches?

Actually donuts is a currency in NH, much like maple syrup.

Haha, I live in Bedford. Believe me, those ladies are for sure packing.