"Gay" bachelorettes are not the topic of conversation, straight bachelorettes are.

Because most straight ladies want kids at some point. Most, not all, but perhaps a majority.

Well since all the commenters seem to say they either have A) a tiara or B) a sash, I think they're easy to spot. Also they're WOMEN in a GAY bar, so they tend to stick out and you can tell when there's just one of them rather than a large group. Plus they usually have to have giant handbags, which straight women who…

So basically you guys are backward as fuck and hate the idea that women should enjoy sex as much as men?

the worst people were the women who were like, "oh my GOD, we're straight but we just loOoOoOve gay men!

The woman is a lesbian, not a gay woman (this was resolved in the 1970s, which you should really know) unless she actually tells you she prefers gay woman.

Also, as a bisexual woman (married to a man, I know I know...)

Make #1 #1 through 4.

I should add that size matters. No one likes a herd.

Straight people, prudes to the end.

It's not an assumption. If she's a lesbian and she's getting married to a woman she'd be a lesbian and also not tacky enough to have a bachelorette party at a gay bar.

I'm sure all the gay men loved you invading their bars.

You sound like so much fun... Like as much fun as an ear infection, and just as childish.

I have yet to see a "restrained" bachelorette party. I don't believe they exist any more than I believe 12 month abortions exist.

It's impossible for a bachelorette party not to screech and scream, thus negating the entire point of them being there. Straight people have billions of bars, we only have a few, or sometimes one.

Please just don't. You don't belong there, and you have absolutely no reason to be there except to either a) try to be the center of attention (which is incredibly disrespectful to the drag queens) because that's what those groups always do OR b) barely tip.

I wish they had, but straight women keep pouring into gay clubs to steal the spotlight from drag queens so I'd say no.

Did you behave appropriately or was the bride to be demanding the spotlight during the show, which happens 99.9% of the time?

I DO need to go dancing though and have ALLLLLLLL the attention on me :)

Yes, because straight women have to go everywhere they want, right? Holy privilege!