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Then how do NFL defenses get so good if they are pulling from college players who play against college style offenses in college? Couldn’t a “good” NFL coach figure out how to make a college offense actually work in the NFL.

I would comment on the nature of his article itself, but I knew he was a world class bullshitter when he humble-bragged that on his very first trip to the snackateria, he managed to make his partner squirt.

Every word you’ve said in this discussion points to the fact that you’re deeply uncomfortable with other people’s negative emotions, which is why I suspect you’re the OP. But all the nastiness and name calling sure is making a great case for you....

Hey now! Stop being a dumb troll and start agreeing with greenarcher02!

LOL. Ok. You are assuming a whole bunch of facts not in evidence from what the OP wrote and vomiting vitriol over every person who had anything remotely critical to say about this woman who cheated on her husband and then told him to stop being mad at her.

Why are you so adamant about this person not having to face any adverse effects of her actions?

I am more than happy to go into how dumb I can get, if you could explain to me the mechanics of 8 months = forever. I think you have to live life a little more if your concept of forever involves 8 months.

That’s your general implication, as you’ve been shotgunning your way through this discussion. You seem very angry, and very invested in making excuses for this woman.

Yep. This person seems reeeaaaally invested in making excuses. OP burner acct perhaps?

You know, I don’t see a lot of holier-than thou-ing in here. Everyone is flawed. Everyone does things that they’re ashamed of later, everyone hurts someone they love. It’s how you handle the aftermath that determines your character. Cheating on your spouse and then dictating the terms of his recovery (or it’s over!)…

Yep. I love the comments here about the husband “needing to learn how to trust again”. I mean, seriously? The husbands ability to trust is just fine. That was never the problem! The problem was her breaking that trust. So you’re absolutely right... the husband doesn’t need to learn how to trust again, she needs/needed…

Shorter! He should be used to this by the second time.

If my SO cheated, I don’t think I’d be able to trust her again. So I’d leave. That’s why it takes a really special person to save a relationship after they’ve been cheated on. You have to be willing to truly forgive, and you have to truly want to stay in the relationship. And staying in the relationship means…

His anger was a minefield for you? How about some compassion: He had to live with that minefield inside his brain — and you put it there.

What happens the next time she cheats on you? Do you get an longer alloted angry time?

I hate when polygamous people act like monogamy is some culturally imposed delusion that we’d all be happier getting rid of. No, asshole, some of us are wired to be monogomous, so stop being a condescending dick.

no, no, trust me, we all just need to live more life to truly appreciate how wonderful it is to get cheated on by someone you love

You just need to live more life.

I felt like it was a way to justify it after the fact. Seems like communication saved the marriage, sucks that it took cheating to get there. Sounds like “We wouldn’t even be awesome right now if I hadn’t cheated!!”