Black, gay dude here, starting out his rant with the standard disclaimer that none of us are monoliths, people contain mulitudes and whatever else you need to hear to stop you from instinctly responding “not all queers” or some derivative thereof.

THE ENTIRE POINT OF THE ARTICLE IS THAT I SHOULDN’T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT WHAT STRAIGHT PEOPLE THINK ABOUT ME AND THE WAY I USE LANGUAGE IN ORDER TO FEEL VALID AND RESPECTED. IF THEIR ALLYSHIP RELIES ON POLICING MY LANGUAGE ITS NOT FUCKING ALLYSHIP

Yes, I simply cannot imagine the Democrats running a candidate whose spouse has a less-than-stellar record.