Yep just checked, it would not have been a crime in New Jersey either. As you were 14, and as long as he wasn’t four years older than you, it just isn’t a crime. “Sexual assault” in New Jersey includes this statutory rape provision: “(4) The victim is at least 13 but less than 16 years old and the actor is at least…

14-year-old with a 17-year old is 100% legal in New York. While 14-year-old with an 18-year-old is a crime, there is an affirmative defense which makes it not a crime if the 18-year-old is less than four years older than the person under the age of 15 (so if you were 14 and 8 months and he was 18 and one month, that’s…