The fact that you even typed, ‘Don’t do this, you’re not helping’ is making my blood boil. We can only help if we do it the way YOU want, right? Ugh. Way to NOT be an ally and silence WOC.

If you’re not a woman of color, you don’t get to tell her what to do. She is helping by expressing herself, WOC don’t have to coddle special white snowflakes. You’re not on our side. And spare me the, ‘We’re all women, we’re on the same side’ crap. You'll never understand how my race and gender intersect.