Being a sinner isn’t being a failure. It means accepting responsibility for your mistakes and moving past them as best you can. The only true failure in Christianity is not accepting that you have made mistakes. The only unforgivable sin is believing you haven’t sinned and therefore don’t need forgiveness.

The fact that you’re hoping somebody tears this guy a new asshole when all he’s doing is offering reasonable advice with a nice heap of stuff that you certainly disagree with but is ultimately harmless says far more about you than him, and I say this as an agnostic.

I’m not sure what kind of answer “Drowning” was looking for asking someone relationship advice who 1)does not share the same faith convictions or 2)ascribes to a “whatever feels good/works for you philosophy” or 3) isn’t even a doctor.