Please also consider what the current state of affairs is like for your children. Mom stressed. Dad blaming Mom for his own laziness. You’re working your ass off to support those kids AND him, and he’s not pulling his weight.

We did see a marriage counselor at one point. We stopped because he felt she was vilifying him.

“We stopped because he felt she was vilifying him”

Kinja is being Kinja and not letting me edit my post - But I just wanted to say thank you for all the advice, the support and the “your not crazy” replies.

But you know what courts can do? Order someone to get a damn job so that they can support themselves and their children.

Oh, I’ve been there. So we got a male marriage counselor. Who ripped into the hubs about six sessions in. Soooo much smug I was feeling!

YOU ARE NOT CRAZY.

If you leave him, point your boy Vin to the GoFundMe. I'll donate and share that link like herpes at Ibiza.

I was you 12 years ago. I am here to tell you, as Dan Savage was quoted above, DTMFA. Get a good attorney - save yourself and your kids from a life of barely squeaking by because he is NEVER going to change and you are going to be supporting his lazy ass til the day you die if you don’t get out. Will it be tough at…

He’s either cheating on her or he’s actually playing Pokémon Go until 5 a.m.

I am pretty sure that the Church of Satan has no actual intention to roll out this club and is simply trying to prove a point (as they have done in the past, most recently in Florida). However, I believe that such a club would be pretty fucking rad. BUT - can you imagine being one of the sponsors? Better yet, can you…

“The so-called Satanic Temple group is a handful of atheists masquerading as so-called Satanists. This group is not legitimate. Its only reason to exist is to oppose the Good News Clubs. The Good News Clubs teach morals, character development, patriotism and respect from a Christian viewpoint. Public schools welcome…

I wish these morons would just be honest and say that “religious freedom” to them means free reign for Christainity and restriction/suppression for any other religion or belief system. I'd have more respect for them if they were at least up front about their fuckery rather than trying to mask their hypocrisy with a…

What exactly (other than to sow doubt and as more of that soft racism they are so fond of) is the purpose of releasing college transcripts and why do the Republicans keep demanding it when they won’t release this?

Lewandowski’s “well I didn’t say that, YOU brought it up” is some elementary school bullshit. Is the Trump campaign perhaps actually being run by groups of two seven year olds stacked on top of each other with a trench coat?

THIS IS THE EMBODIMENT OF EVERY ARGUMENT I’VE HAD THIS ELECTION SEASON. CONSERVATIVES / TRUMP SUPPORTERS / REPUBLICANS TWISTING WORDS AND DERAILING THE CONVERSATION AND SAYING SHIT LIKE “WELL YOU SAID” “YOU BROUGHT IT UP” AND OMG I’M SORRY FOR THE ALL CAPS BUT I’M FUCKING SICK OF IT.

Look at the stars. See how they shine for you.

Even if he was an affirmative action admission all it would prove is that affirmative action kicks ass and is worth the investment, because we got Barack Freaking Obama out of it.