In the city I live in, there are gay bars, some of which I’ve been to with friends. I don’t complain that they call it a “gay bar”.

“Would you say the same thing if a straight couple were kissing in front of children? No? Then you’re homophobic. And kids don’t care about that any more than they do straight PDA.”

She’s so brave for being calm in this trying situation

Just to be clear, by ‘Devil’s Advocate’ you really mean ‘Homophobe Apologist’, right?

I’ve never understood the “what about the children” homophobia defence. I have never had a child approach me to tell me that I’m making them uncomfortable, or respond to myself and a partner with negative facial expressions or body language.

I almost got into an all out brawl with my ignorant sister-in-law about this. We were out for dinner and a gay male couple were kissing at a nearby table. She starts stage whispering “I’m not homophobic but there are KIDS here”. To which I replied “You are the definition of homophobia”. A great battle ensued, the…

The fact that she had to mention that she “walked up to them calmly” means that she either-A) Did not walk up to them calmly or B) Feels like walking up to a gay couple calmly is something worth mentioning or C) Eat a bag of butts, lady.

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