I can take or leave porn to be honest. I’m not against it nor do I think it is inherently degrading to women, but the times I do try to seek something out I like I am overwhelmed by how male-centered it is. Not from a principled standpoint, but from an ‘ok this is not hot for me as a lady’ point of view.

WHAT THE FUCK WAS THAT VIDEO.

Guys I get it, it wasn’t a very good joke but please stop responding with your childhood smells and/or hot takes on the job market lol.

Everyone is answering this in earnest and I’m just like :((((((

Same!! And 30 Rock is one of my absolute favourites for that. Where I live Netflix already took it down ages ago (you get a different selection in different countries) and honestly I haven’t found anything to replace it.

HOLY SHIT YES YOU ARE

“What was your first scent memory?”

I do not understand Kardashian hate. I don’t care for them but I don’t get why they get under people’s skin so much. They are a symptom, not a cause.

There is a huge difference between staying together for the children in an unhappy relationship and taking your ass to couples therapy before you pull the plug. I would never advocate for staying with a dick just because you have kids, but an outside perspective can help to sort shit out. I will always support a woman…

Oh thank you!! They sound perfect.

Oh God, lately I’ve seen so much of that bullshit Miranda Kerr is talking about online. Search ‘tradlife’ on Twitter, you’ll see so many ~theories~ about What Men Are and What Women Are and How Women Must Empower Men - written by WOMEN. It is..

I, A Millennial, never understood my mom’s obsession with house plants. They seemed like such a lame thing to have to take care of. I also once accidentally murdered almost all of my dad’s girlfriend’s many plants because I housesat for them and genuinely never thought to water them, even as they slowly died around…

Yeah of course, that will happen on an American website :). But here, society is less marriage-focused and people in different kinds of partnerships can get their legal stuff in order. I’m at an age now where I think a lot of people in relationships in the US would be married or at least wanting to get married, but…

Yes to the coparenting thing! Even if they do get divorced (which is probably likely and totally fine if they’ve given it their best shot), they still have to be in each others’ lives. That can become a super toxic situation if there’s unresolved bullshit. Clearing out all accounts and doing a runner probably isn’t…

Within Europe (where we live) it’s recognised and if we ever plan to move outside of that we can always still get married. For now, we don’t have any property/kids/capital that would warrant a marriage and ‘next of kin’ isn’t a legal concept here, it only exists in the US and I think maybe the UK.

We don’t have the money for a wedding in the foreseeable future (that is, we’d rather spend it on travel and things we enjoy) and honestly, I see no real difference between a registered partnership and a marriage. Once we have kids we’ll revisit the paperwork issue but as far as our commitment to each other goes, we…

Ok so I fully acknowledge that I was pretty traumatized by my parents’ divorce and am super sensitive about this stuff but:

Blanket age difference condemnations are the worst. My partner is 14 years older than me, and boy do people have Opinions (not our friends or family, they love us together). No, I’m not ~extremely mature for my age~ nor is he immature. We’re two people who thank our lucky stars that we’ve found each other. Really the…

We’ve been together for 5 years and have no intention to get married, but are registered as partners where we live. I have a lot of faith in the longevity of our relationship in a way I’ve never had before. We took the long road to be together.

She does do her job really well! It’s a shame she gets lumped in with the Instagram-gang. Girl knows what she’s doing.