I too was not super impressed with Bob, he had the mannerisms really great with Uzo but I didn't think she made it that funny (poem was alright but wasn't he calling the model by her last name as though it was her first?) and she didn't really do a Carol Channing voice until she said "corn." But the jokes were really…

Debbie Harry was already on her way out and she does respond by saying something like "I really yanked them up." She didn't seem uncomfortable; if a woman is offended by a gay man good-naturedly complimenting their tits, well, she sounds like no fun.

I had never heard that before so I did do some independent research (since their link was so clearly biased) and saw that about the thesis but it's quite funny (i.e. terrible) to not actually mention his influential speeches and writings.

While I too get frustrated with the "feminism = no fun" I didn't really get that from the review. I think lots of people find aggressively political music offputting (feminist or otherwise) and Tacocat gets labeled feminist so much, I think it made sense to clarify that they aren't singing the SCUM manifeso up there.…

I don't care about their politics BUT the feminist vibe does make me like them more. Even if it isn't Capital F feminist to sing about your period, it is a feminist act to some degree, I think!

I did see them play Alien Girl just because someone said they'd buy them all beers, even though they weren't sure if they knew how to play it. I thought that was nice so maybe it would work! Offer beer.

Exactly what I was going to say. I like both! Catcalling is annoying and this band, as they described, is not actually politically feminist they simply sing fun, low stakes songs about things that happen to them. I like more overtly political music, too, and from a variety of voices.

Are you mad they wear bright, mismatched clothes and dye their hair? I don't really see what there is to be upset about because musicians have been doing that for quite a while.

I had never heard this shit before either (grew up mainly non-religious and liberal, in Texas if you can believe it) but I teach an information literacy thing and one of the big sites for showing kids "be careful with your Googlings" is martinlutherking.org (which comes up 4th or 5th in most google searches.) It's a…

It's definitely an odd look…pleat front pants with a shirt tucked in has never been my fave look but I'm still gonna give it a listen.

I too very mildly enjoyed the first album- put it on in the back ground and liked it but nothing stood out so I'm curious how the slicker production might affect that.

And what was your joke…that bass players are stocky? Okay, I would even tolerate that joke if it were funny but I guess I don't actually think that's a thing? All the bassists that come to mind are an array of sizes and shapes….is it play on ASS like she has a big ass and that sounds like bass? Lazy jokes offend me…

For sure, her riding him like a pony and they both almost being close was quite amusing to me. And when she described what "nothing but net" was. I was worried they were going to forget that Ilana has expressed a disinterest in big peens in the past but of course they didn't.

Sorry you've had such a bad go at it; I can understand the frustration. It sounds like nice interesting guys slip through the cracks; basically a few bad apples (the "hey" guys, the ones who write every woman without ever reading their profiles, the overly aggressive) spoiling the whole bunch and making it harder to…

Maybe I missed it if you said this upthread, but do you masturbate? That will go along way towards figuring out what you like on your clit. So much can be done with just that without even having to worry about any kind of penetration! And it's something at least you can bring with you interms of knowledge; "I know I…

Ug, I've encountered 2 men who were not big fans. It was very weird and foreign to me since it's something I love to give and is usually very enthusiastically received. They both would just kind up put up with it and then get kind of jelly boned and we'd move on to something else. No long term potential there.

I am still no fitness nut but I did recently find an activity I don't loathe and actually look forward to but this required me to go on a long ass journey with my weight and body before that was ever going to happen. I was a mildly chubby adolescent (I come from chubby stock, I'm not built to be very thin, it seems)…

That was the #1 thing I had to break myself of. I was usually more "why doesn't this guy want to date me, we have no chemistry, would not be compatible in a relationship at all, but we can talk about music and we make each other laugh!!??" And then I realize oh, because friends, we'd make perfectly nice friends and…

I won't mind all of that but my husband can't handle it, hence why we bought a house in the first place. I swear, I have never noticed the sound of my neighbors (in many varied shitty apartments) until I moved in with him and he made me hyper aware of every sound. I feel very lucky that those things never bothered…

Trader Joe's is just one of my 5 grocery stores I go to and there are a few good things there for cooking (the cheapest ground turkey I've ever found…surprised that as an adult I get fucking STOKED about cheap ground turkey) but yeah, most of what I buy are convenience items like frozen stuff for lunch at work.