If you truly aren't that self conscious about it, then why does it sting? As much as a I want to be as kind and respectful as possible I do think we're reaching a point where people feel entitled to never being offended which just isn't realistic. I do believe that there is a difference between stating "no fat…

I just can't with this. I am a woman who has been with women and guess what? I have said on many occasions I'm not a fan, and that I'm a less than turned on by their appearance. Just like some people are turned off by the appearance of dicks and balls! There's a point, in my opinion, where it's okay to speak for…

I listen to his podcast pretty religiously and think that the people complaining about it are exaggerating. He used to be more dramatic about it but in the past few years, he barely mentions his distaste for pussy at all and when he does, it's like you said, he's usually just trying to be funny. Or using it as an…

I have a mild hangup about how my husband's ex would easily come from penetration and that is not something I've ever been able to do. But our sex is great and of course he says it's better but it's good to hear that it is definitely true for at least one guy!

From what I've read, it doesn't necessarily have to be a traumatic event. Just something, usually in that preadolecent sweet spot, "imprints" on you. So let's say your fetish is vore, perhaps you just happened to see a snippet of a cannibal movie at just the right time and it somehow got stored in your erotic…

It's the small things. The first thing that comes to mind is one Valentine's day like 10 years ago I was unusually depressed about being single in addition to being depressed in general because I hated my job and my whole lot in life at that time but I was roommates with my best friend and she got me this quite large…

Attraction to him is nothing new for me (I like a beard and a deep voice) but I was a little disappointed he didn't at least spank her a little since, that's also something I'm into and would have liked to see it!

I read it like the reviewer, in that I actually cried at that scene because it just seemed really cathartic. Of course Maura is self absorbed but she at least has an excuse, going through such a big moment in her life and finally being honest with herself, unlike the rest of the Pfeffermans who are just self absorbed…

I'm late to the column but I feel like chiming in because my advice is going to be different than everyone else's.

Your library keeps a list of what you check out!? I'm very surprised (as a librarian who is always explaining to patrons that we don't keep a record of what they check out to protect their privacy!)

Exactly. It's fine to be "over" all the "OMG kitty meeemes!!"ness of things but Lil Bub and his guardian seem pretty inoffensive in the grand scheme of things.

I am not a Flaming Lips fan but I think some of the songs on there are cool and she can have a lovely singing voice on some songs. Certainly not essential but also kind of interesting.

COMPLETELY agreed, as I was obsessed with RTJ and RTJ 2 and think actually going through with Meow the Jewels is amusing and they were doing it for a good cause etc. but I found it unlistenable. I however could watch the video of E-P going to the animal shelter and "auditioning" cats over and over again.

That is pretty cool, I had no idea. It seems especially thoughtful in that Bub is famous because his condition just happens to make him cute but certainly lots of pets have less cute ailments and need extra help!

I love all kinds of very crass music and can really excuse even the most vile misogynist lyrics (especially in my beloved hip hop) if I enjoy the song or it's clever in some way. But Sublime just disgusted me so deeply that I never got over it.

As obsessed with Run the Jewels actual music as I am, I consider Meow the Jewels to be very non essential. The Lil Bub album is much more pleasant listening to me!

I said this above but my husband (and me to a lesser degree) have been really enjoying the Lil Bub album! It's sort of harmless, pleasant music and the cover is cool looking and I enjoy the whole concept because it's so dumb.

I am no particular fan of chipwave type stuff but my husband has been bumping the shit out of the Lil Bub album. It's such a dumb concept but the music is perfectly pleasant plus you get to say it's inspired by a magic permakitten. I've started adding "bubbin' bubbin'" to the songs, to the tune of Kreyshawn's Bumpin…

She seems to be into a variety of penis sizes since she likes the average sized penis like her boyfriend and she would also like a big dick. I'm a lady and I am with an average dicked man and I love it but do I sometimes think about that feeling of really big dick. I'm not a size queen and would not like a huge dick…

His Joanna Angel days were when I was at the height of my porn fandom…I was not just extra horny and liked watching the porn but also following Fleshbot and just the whole "scene" at the time. I was very much feeling the whole alt porn thing, it seemed more woman positive, had a sense of humor, and featured younger,…