I'm trying to write an erotic novel and can't bring myself to use "cum" and similarly like to think that it's well written enough that there is no question what I mean.

I would say yes, of course, that's true. But it is reasonably more upsetting when a liberal leaning person (who typically has a more progressive view of women's rights) is a creeper than someone who openly supports retrograde gender roles.

Star Collector is funny because it's like "yeah, we're getting kind of edgy talking about star fuckers but we can't actually go in all the way and call it Star Fucker"

That's my fave Monkees album (it's a string of astrological signs and Jones because Mike and Davey had the same birthday therefore both Capricorns.) I think they all had some amount of musical talent (and I very much enjoy Nesmith's solo music) but it did work better for them to have some more studio help after the…

Agreed, it gets into some weird gender essentialism to basically say that violence is inherently male and women should never derive pleasure or power from it.

So you just know he must be an absolute asshole nightmare to be in a relationship with but I have a real soft spot for male musicians who write thoughtfully/scathingly about women who you just know they treated like garbage (Ben Folds, Elvis Costello, Kanye.) And I'm a woman!

I saw him with the LA symphony because he was opening for Elvis Costello…I thought I was kind of over Ben Folds but damn if it wasn't a great performance and I cried a little bit at Landed. My husband had eaten too much of a weed chocolate bar and was having his mind melting experience gazing up from the Hollywood…

Me too! I have a friend very deep into One Direction fanfic and it's so funny to hear about absolutely dreadful to read! Like…the writing is not good and the premise is insane and the combo of amateur writing + sexual fantasy + celebrity crushes feels just a little too intimate for me!

Monkees fandom is still somewhat rabid. What's weird to me is that I was heavy duty into the Monkees when I was a pre-teen (so 1996 or so) and it was less Internet dependent and I subscribed to the Monkee Business Fanzine which was very intense and insane in the amount of information still being gathered about a fake…

I re-watched Head recently and was feeling Can You Dig It more than I remembered. And of course As We Go Along is very pretty.

I'm a ride or die Mike fan, so yes, I'll add Papa Jean's Blues and Sweet Young Thing and when shit gets weird like Tapioca Tundra. Ooh and Listen to the Band.

Not if you are obsessed with the Monkees like I am. I had the DVD's (which my parents paid for because I was a spoiled only child) which came once a month with 2 episodes on each, who knows how much it cost them when it was all said and done. THEN I go the DVD collection. And now I will get the Blu Ray because…

I don't think it's ever been considered a terrible show but it is certainly dumb and made for kids. But, as a Monkees super nerd, I really do think the second season gets more self aware and weird making it entertaining even to an adult.

Or rather, it's a filter for people who are less interested in sex than you. I like to get in there and fuck ASAP to know if we're compatible and have chemistry and if we both have similar sexual values (namely that it doesn't make you more "reasonable" if you don't highly value sexual chemistry.) I'm a woman so I…

It was a real awkward thing where Ashley had gone to England for a while and then came back (I looked it up, Season 6) and they kind of shoehorned a renewed romance between them in real quick. Then he went to chasing after a girl in physical therapy who was white and had dreads, sad. Oh and Ashley and Jimmy try to…

I find his music harmless and sometimes enjoyable now but back before he blew up I was too into Degrassi and looked up what all of them were doing on the side and saw some very early iteration of his rap persona ans I was like "Hah, Drake, what a joke!" I was clearly wrong!

What about the Drake moment when he can't get it up post-shooting when trying to have sex with Ashley? So many aborted sexual attempts! (Not to be confused with Manny's actual abortion.)

See, taste in movies I can definitely compromise on…I like weird talky boring movies and my husband doesn't but I'm in no hurry to see them in the theater and will usually catch them sometime on Netflix while he's playing video games. We can only really agree on action, horror on the occasional comedy but that's okay.

Luckily my husband can tolerate my appreciation of such things and even can appreciate some of it himself. It's important to me that my partner like music (actively tries to hear new things, go to shows, maybe try to make music) but NOT be a music snob. My husband and I overlap a lot on the music we like but differ…

I re-watched it again recently and still found it very funny. I think you either like continuous stupid gag movies or you don't (which is why i was so surprised when I finally watched They Came Together after hearing middling reviews….it was Airplane for romantic comedies like this was Airplane for slasher movies!)