Also, is Ginger even right that there were no drag pageants in the 60's? I tried a quick google and yeah, it seems they started in the early 70's, but still, her point was that pageant drag is old school and boring and that she'd do it if it was the only option out there but it's not necessary to succeed anymore (as…

I was actually even more bothered by her bullying of Pearl on Untucked. Like, Pearl didn't want to hear it anymore and went outside to get away from it and Ginger goes out there, not to really apologize, but to get a "hug and makeup" moment with Pearl, for the cameras. And Pearl did not want it but finally gave in…

I really liked Jaidynn, too! It felt like for some reason she kept getting no attention and it beat down her self confidence and eventually her fire burned out. Her Bianca in that song parody should have won (over Kennedy's performance which was blah), her electrified escaped prisoner Death Becomes Her was fierce, and…

It's an interesting conversation. I never really felt responsible for the feelings of theoretical people who might read my dating profile before but of course the things I stated I didn't want aren't as loaded as no trans people (I've been out of the game for while, I think the only thing I said was "don't bother if…

Do you think maybe they were stimulating themselves and you didn't notice? That's a possibility. Also, calling them "liars" isn't really fair, it's not women's fault that they feel pressure to "perform" because it's likely because some asshole made them feel bad for how their body works. It was a PROCESS to figure…

I don't like doing either, I find them both tedious. I found rubbing a clit particularly boring, it's those fine motor movements (I also never got used to doing it on myself because I require vibrator level stimulation.) I found fingering the gspot a little less tedious but i still didn't like the repetitive motion.…

Just to be "that woman"….dick pics do give me sexual pleasure. I know many women don't like them but some of us are "visual" enough to see a dick and get turned on. I don't even mind getting one when I first start talking to someone (when I was dating) because it's nice to know what they're working with while you…

Some people just don't like doing it. My husband does not enjoy it and while this would be an issue for some, I don't enjoy it (I need a different kind of stimulation to get off and the feeling itself isn't pleasurable like, say, penetration, which won't get me off but does get me further turned on) AND I was in…

That is weird to me. I am one of those ladies who needs very strong, indirect stimulation (the kind only possible with a vibrator) so I always come, with my husband's assistance but also with very little fuss, it's a few seconds of a sex romp (and my husband's orgasm is a few seconds of the romp as well.) All the…

Yeah, has anyone ever seen the face men make when they're trying to finish, it's the same! Don't most people close their eyes and have to focus a bit before they hit the point of no return? I think it's further proof the gals before were faking because he hasn't seen what people really look like when they're about to…

I just wonder what her issue is exactly…is there something clearly masculine about the women the LW is encountering (sqaure jaw, facial hair…of course, these are thing cis women have sometimes too! ) that is turning her off? Does she not like the feel of breast implants and the trans women she's encountering have…

In general this is true but in terms of your own personal dating preference, it seems extreme to require someone to pretend to be attracted to people you aren't attracted to in order to qualify as an ally. But on the other hand, if you like someone's pictures and personality, why no give it a chance? I'm is attracted…

I do concede he's a divisive guy, seems you either love him or hate him, even on Project Runway. I loved him and wanted him to win (despite it being clear he was kind of sloppy and not the best designer, classic reality show thing of rooting for someone's "character" over their actual talent, it happens to the best of…

I think in this case being "old" for Ginger and Kennedy also meant old school, they had more traditional drag while the "young" ones (despite age) care more about fashion and pushing the envelope. I don't know why Katya was lumped with them but maybe just because she's very self deprecating and likes playing old!

You are the second person to call Santino a sleaze for flirting BACK at Violet, who was flirting with him! I mean, if they ran away together, yeah, maybe he's a little old for her, but for a 20 second mutual flirtation, why should anyone feel ashamed of themselves?! Violet has said repeatedly how horny she is so like…

I don't get why people are so hung up about the boy drag thing. This is POSITIVE move for the show, if all gender expression is drag, then let's be a little less uptight about the line between male and female. They read Alaska for it but now Kennedy is winning for it, I think fretting over it seems very old school…

When it all started, I was certain that it was would be Trixie, Katya, Ginger and Violet based on the fact that first 3 were the only ones with a clear personality and Violet had such style and they might feel compelled to re-visit the "runway queen" winner a la Raja from season 3. BUT since a comedy/camp queen has…

This theory comes up a lot and I don't know if it's based in fact at all but it infuriates me! I am a big (cis)girl and love to see a big fierce queen of course but who really gives a shit to the degree that we'd want to see someone who is boring and manipulative win!? She is talented, she can lip sync and tell a joke…

I think Kennedy won fair and square (at least based on the edit we saw.) Yes there was jumping and kicking and splitting but I thought it was well timed. I didn't really understand why Katya didn't pull out more of that physicality, she did the one cartwheel split but AFTER Kennedy, she knew bitch would bust that…

I am straight up obsessed and in love with Trixie but I would not call her a Miss Congeniality, she'll read a bitch in a minute and can be much more mean spirited (which I love!) than Katya who legit seemed like a sincere . I just feel like Katya was a lock for top 3 so I immediately went a voted for her, I bet even…