I don’t think that’s you being picky, I think that’s just a very emotional response for something that should be mental. If that makes any sense. You have to put away your feelings and embrace the persons new mental state. And then sure, go process your feelings. But this isn’t about our snowflake feelings. Who cares…

But hot oil drillers will save the world.

They are now. Their actions now are showing they are. The point is, if a nazi came up to oh and said “I was wrong and now I want to help ‘your side’”, your only response should be “ok great.”

Don’t do this. Don’t pick apart non perfect allies when they do something good. Kudos to them for moving forward and helping the fight to equality. Not excusing anything they’ve done in the past, but they deserve a handshake for this one.

Yes. When she brought Goldie hawn to meet him, he was so excited. I may have shed a tear.

Yes thank you. I wasn’t sure who they were at first and then caught on. I’m a slow internet learner.

Yes thank you. I just learned what the dismiss button is!

Same. I actually kind of like my curly hair but I’m so used to it straight, as is everyone in my life, it’s scary to go natural. I’m waiting for the summer to take a 3 month heat break from my hair and pretty much wear drench it in oil daily.

Ha. Ew.

I’m so glad someone said most of their sexual experiences have been weird in some way. me too. Me too. Ugh.

Really?? Maybe a little introspection is good. I have kinks and more or less understand then and where they came from and what I’m filling by acting them out.

They’re flocking to the comments. I just signed in and saw 57 alerts to new comments I had. Literally all from mra’s. I’m nauseous at their comments about my rape.

I responded to your comment. Want to respond to mine?

Oh hi are you me? Still working on the hair love.

After more than one serious incident-yes, no more cars for you. It’s not a right to have a car.

I Said “I don’t want to have sex. Stop. Not now. I’m too dizzy to have sex now.” He replied “shh shh”

Yeah I hear you. I agree that the more you know someone the better the sex is. I have been in long term relationships that were sexually fulfilling. I’ve also had MIND BLOWING sex with complete strangers. I’m not looking for a long term relationship at the moment (considering a new job and moving overseas in the next…

At the library? Which is where I met this guy. I volunteer with kids at a library in my neighborhood. He was a single dad who came in with his kids. Are libraries the “wrong places” to meet men? Where should I look?

I willingly drank and got drunk. I did not willingly have sex with him. It was our second date and I trusted him not to rape me. As I said in another comment-he held me down as I said “not now I’m too dizzy” and told me “shh shh you feel so good.”

This. Even as hospitals around the country offer reiki and holistic services? Even as Harvard offers other healing modalities.