Apparently you don't know, or refuse to understand my point. It's insane to me that my comment is somehow triggering so much rage. I think fighting lack of empathy to individuals' experiences with lack of empathy to other individuals' experiences is wrong.

I don't disagree with your historic analysis but claiming that all GROUP X feel the certain way about something is bigoted behavior, and lacks empathy and recognition of individuality.

Not the same thing at all. #notallmen was a jerk move because it took attention away from the key issue. Flowbee is being a jerk because s/he is painting an entire group with the same brush.

How do you know that the "regretted sex" narrative doesn't hold water? Women who claim rape often have to browbeat schools into prosecuting the alleged rapist because the police often find no evidence. Of course it doesn't mean that men do not rape women but to ignore the complexity of human nature and just say that…

The only problem with his remarks, in my opinion, are that he singles out women as the problem. No one, male or female, should drink so much that he or she can not control their actions or the actions of other people.

Please don't label me as a rapist, but follow this logic. I walk through the 'hood by myself at night waving $100 bills around. I get robbed. Was I a total moron for waving $100's around, YES. Did I have a "right" to walk around waving cash in the air and not get robbed, YES. Was I still stupid for doing it…

I don't think that is what he is saying. Everyone knows and agrees that women are raped because men rape them. It is so obvious at this point that I don't think it even merits mention.

I'm going to say this, because it seems like every time someone says women should drink less they get raged at.

... so how do i point out that, feminism does not sound like equality. from over here.