I think of the friends in this case as the women who strongly advocate for FGM in areas where it's becoming more controversial. They see themselves as looking out for their daughters' best interests since they know how they'll be treated if they DON'T get it done. I want to call the friends vile here, but I can't. I…

Thanks for sharing; I'd never thought of it that way.

Thanks. :) It's been two decades now, so the immediate impact of it is long dulled.

Oh man, I have almost that exact story. I was 15 or 16, it was a date rape by a 36 year old guy in my karate class that had preyed on me for a year to gain my trust first. When I told my mom I'd been raped, she accused me of lying, and here's the fucked up part: *I* thought I was lying too. Because I hadn't fought him…

So... this is a bit off-topic, but I found an incredible gif here once of a woman who spread her legs and sucked a screaming dude into her vagina, which was apparently a black hole of some kind. Then she looks at the camera and smirks like a BOSS. Look, I swear I'm not making this up. This gif existed. It existed and…

Right?! That's why I had to include that detail. It paints such a picture.

I had a dear friend who was dating a guy I hated. We usually didn't talk about him much, but when she got engaged of course I made an exception. She told me about his "proposal:"

I suspect this is true. However, the picture shown is hardly anyone's wildest fantasy. It's a woman in a red corset and a whip. It actually seems pretty tame.

I appreciate the distinction between "fantasies" and "stuff I want to do" though. I have fantasies I'd like to live out and those I would never ever ever want…

Yeah, any time I hear something like, "[This demographic] just can't get their shit straight!!!", I'm inclined to suspect there are some huge honking structural impediments making it really hard for them to do so. In this case, I suspect apathy plays a big role. Apathy is a rational response to polarization - the…

Actually, you're completely missing the joke. Take your own advice.

One year, I dressed as Rachel Maddow. My interests include philosophy, history and nature.

Um, no. From a glance it looked like you were using a selfie for an avatar photo. Now it looks like it's maybe a dude in an 80's hair metal band. Which, you know, yeah... still pretty sure you're white.

Yeah, that's absolutely what you should be taking out of this. Thank you, white woman, for a'splainin to the coloreds about how they're being racist.

It's a power thing. It's their way of bullying you for not giving them the attention they think they're entitled to. Sick, huh?

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Wow. Well said. Ok, I guess that changes everything. Thank you.

...No. The standard of professionalism is still "white guy." "Presentable" and "professional" are subjective terms and have a history behind them. I've noticed most black men I work with in a professional setting have nearly identical haircuts - barely longer than an inch - and I'm guessing it has to do with the fact…

P in V is fun, but maybe the least interesting thing about sex. Bodies can do such awesome things with each other. I'm not sure if I've had sex with a guy with a "micropenis" since it seems like a pretty specific term, but I've had sex with men with very small penises and it's just... whatever. Nothing to really even…

Dear Steve Vaillancourt:

Nobody cares about your stupid boner.