I only worked on the green section on days when I HATED MYSELF

Ugh. I hate secondary colors. Just look at my icon and suffer the mostly primariness!

That is seriously impressive.

On one hand, he’s entirely misunderstanding what sexism is and he has much to learn if he thinks that this is a specific form of discrimination that men experience vs. A very common form of discrimination experienced mostly by women but also to some men to a generally far lesser degree. However, he’s right that it…

You are always so good about corrections! It really demonstrates integrity. I like you, is what I’m saying.

To add on to what you’re saying, which I agree with entirely, it’s a big assumption to say that the bar had security. The police are the only ones qualified to deal with the situation, regardless.

Just got out three wisdom teeth and my gums are a painful wound (painkillers make me itch furiously and I can’t do it again.) You have my sympathies here. Damn it, teeth!

Her singular vision, his help getting things off the ground- very nice job, guys.

Diagnosed at 25 but in retrospect it should have been so obvious. I drew on everything. Girls are often quiet at ADHD, though. I’ve always just brought myself something to do with my hands to keep myself from going crazy. It’s so hard dealing with a lifetime of shame and confusion as to why you could never finish…

When I first went off of my anxiety meds I cried for hours, frantic, limply sitting on the kitchen floor. At one point my parents revealed a savings account for me of 1/3 of all my allowances up to that point- I had just turned 18- with over a thousand dollars I could spend on whatever fun stuff I wanted- and so I…

Have you checked out livelovepolish.com ? It’s absolutely killed my savings. They weren’t much anyway, but still.

I’m no longer bartending and so it’s a weird adjustment to realize that I can’t justify makeup as a work expense anymore. On the other hand- well, on both my hands, my nail polish has lasted for four days now and I’m confused and annoyed to have to remove it myself. Normally, a shift took off all my polish completely,…

Such good advice. Never be afraid of the person disliking you, because that’s just a timesaver. If you are yourself unabashedly and without shame then you will repel all the crappy people who wouldn’t really appreciate you for yourself anyhow, which may mean more waiting time before you get nibbles but at least the…

With the rocks it’s hard to tell for that, but where I worked as a bartender until very very recently, we used an ounce and a quarter of bourbon. The way to determine the quantities while pouring, should you be so fortunate as to have a pour spout, is to count andoneandtwoandthreeandfourandfive- each count should be…

Last year, I went out to the west for three months, living in a trailer with my boyfriend and cat. Wyoming, Colorado, Utah, Arizona- mosquitos from around the country all dined on my blood. And now that I’m back on the east coast, I hate the sky. It’s so blurry and flat. I’ve got to go back.

That’s an accomplishment, truly. You can’t hear it from over there but I’m applauding.

An old fashioned is muddled cherry and orange slice, bourbon on the rocks, a dash of simple syrup and a dash of bitters.

Whenever I forget to hit “show pending” I feel disappointed with the comments and often realize my mistake and go back. It’s weird, the current system. I would think that as women we have had our voices shut out enough already. It beats the animal torture and rape gifs, but I wish that Jezebel were more proactive at…

I lost most of my baby teeth in middle school and I was so tiny that everybody thought I was a lost child of some teacher whenever I was in the hall during class. And then puberty hit and I had c cups and a lot of my teeth missing. UGH, YOUTH. But, no glorious red hair to show for it. I’m sorry that being a redheaded…

Willing to bet that he and I get the same number of gay people writing to us for advice, by which I mean zero.