Whoops - I meant, he was shooting in Detroit and *staying* in Franklin or Bloomfield!

It was “Real Steel” from 2010. And it was either Franklin or Bloomfield, I’m not sure where that area falls :-)

Me too!

She’s amazing, but she’s too self critical. I got her started...she was interested and I showed her the basics. She went off, read up, and BAM, so great at it I was questioning MYSELF. She is a regular now in her local community and literally has to beat off the interested parties.

Define regular sex! But seriously, many tech guys are into roleplaying and the attention on THEM that having a D/s relationship can bring. It’s a safety valve that involves quite a bit of money (the time and accountrements do not come cheap) but it comes in discrete packages- it’s a paid service and they can stop…

Thanks for writing about a part of the tech scene not talked about usually. A couple of things:

That and men from hugely sex negative cultures. Women themselves are weird fetishized creatures to them.

Whatever it happens to be. A typical male sub (if there is such an animal) may be into humiliation, forced feminization (being made to wear women’s clothes/makeup/etc,) chastity (having his penis locked in a cage making him unable to achieve an erection,) or even pegging (anal with a strapon,) or cuckolding (being…

Not to get too graphic, but what kinds of activities are we talking about?

A lot of people who aren’t particularly socially adept find BDSM appealing. It’s literally a relationship with well-defined rules. You’ll find nerd types, like Gamers, gravitate to it a lot. These are my kinks, these are my limits, this is what I like to do, this is how much of it I want to do. Here’s a word I can say…

Further lending credence to my theory that sexual masochism in men is the exclusive province of the monied. No one wants to work at some factory all day, take a bus an hour each way and then get whipped by a stranger.

MONEY.

I wish I was in a position to do it professionally. I’m not, but my bestie is, and considering she’s the most natural Domme I’ve ever met, I keep encouraging her to go pro.

“The traditional image of someone who hires dominatrixes is an older man with an unbreakable kink who’s willing to put up the money to get what he needs.”

They don’t call San Jose “Man Jose” for nothing:

I don’t think that this is a tech guys tend to be submissive thing. There are plenty into being dominant too. It’s more that BDSM is a money-intensive fetish, especially for men hiring sex workers, so well-off people are overrepresented.

Why are so many tech guys into this?

I’ve heard rumours that Chris Noth was a real dickbag,.

Yeah, he is disgusting and creepy and needs to stop. It was wonderful seeing him be so terrified of our client, but it was also really scary seeing it happen.

You have to remember that a lot of people areREALLY short