I missed the part that said he was laughing off people’s congratulations, and that he allegedly wasn’t on Facebook. Clearly I misjudged the situation, and he’s an enormous asshole.

At first blush (and a little misreading on my part e.g. I thought she saw it on his Facebook profile), it seemed far more likely than we were putting us on than someone would actually be that gullible.

Oh my god...a thousand times yes! I was at a point in a past relationship where I would check his phone, SEE WITH MY OWN TWO EYES that were meet-up logistics planned via text and long late-night phone calls. I would ask him if he was seeing this girl outside of work. He would act indignant and say “absolutely not”.…

The feeling of personal power that comes from manipulating emotions. “Look how many women I can fool into wanting me! I am a GOD!”

I agree, I’ve seen enough examples of willful blindness with respect to infidelity that this is plausible.

THIS. You email the woman all of your correspondence and your shock about the whole thing. That way, when she gets ready to divorce him later on, she’ll have a lot of documentation.

When I confronted him today, he admitted that he’s engaged.

I wonder if there was no previous relationship in the sense that he probably never broke up with her. I had a coworker this gullible and it was heartbreaking, she didn’t know how to just cut him off.

It’s so sick how someone in love can be manipulated this way. Like, no one wants to or is capable of believing a person they’ve spent so much time with and trust and love could do something like this to them. Ugh. People are awful. And then the continued lying. Like, dude, you're caught. Just fucking admit it and let…

If I think about all the time we spend IMing and calling and skyping, he couldn’t possibly also be married, right?

If you notice things like odd hair color then you’ve led a very sheltered life. Get out more.

Nice of you to join us, Zak!

Show us what you look like.

Kewl asshat can’t defend the mysogonistic practices and highlighted in this article but wants to be sure their hate and fear of and for women shines through so insults appearance. In a super lame way.

Ooh, I like it.

I mean a good example of people who need this money are theater actors who are doing tv. There have been a big influx of primarily stage actors doing shows at the moment and for them that’s like the big pay check they get so they can continue being paid fucking peanuts to do theater. It’s something that can literally…

Most actors aren't millionaires, though. There are a lot more bit actors than there are stars, they're the ones this issue really affects.

From someone who works with artists and in intellectual property - they weren’t always millionaires, and just because someone looks like one, it doesn’t necessarily follow that someone is one (the example that comes to mind off the top of my head b/c I don’t have a whole lot of time today is that scene out of Almost…

But also, like, what they’re doing IS the definition of harassment...so...they must have hooved feet because they sort of ruin the ground they stand on.

I’m not buying this narrative and you shouldn’t either. They’ve fucking perverted the word harassment first of all. Look up the definition of harassment