If someone takes the time to invite you to the party take the time to let them know whether or not you'll be there. Takes literally a minute or two and helps them plan. If you don't do this realise those party invitations will start to wane.

How is a polite 'no' difficult? It's very easy to simply say, 'I'm sorry, we're unable to end but have a lovely evening.' It's called being a grownup.

A restaurant is a place of conviviality and exists to serve patrons.

yeah no.

I never said that I did it. I said that I understand why people do it. Most adults do understand why other adults make small talk with people at social gatherings. Why this continues to be a surprise to people is beyond me.

OMFG with the non-RSVPers. I am getting ready to serve Christmas dinner and I have had like 4 or 5 people text me out of nowhere being like, "hey I'm going to try to come by after BLANK AND BLANK AND BLANK do you have extra food? FUCKING NO. FUCK YOU. I'm not answering any of them. You either make me part of your…

Kosher is tricky though because that's not just a matter of leaving out some ingredients is it? It's my understanding that I could not prepare a kosher meal in my kitchen because my dishes/utensils/cookware has already been mixed in a non-kosher way.

I think the point is supposed to be that you can't accept an invitation and then turn around and change your response later just because something better comes up.

I work at the kind of restaurant that hosts fancy parties quite often. I'm totally okay with accommodating an allergy, religious restriction, or reasonable dietary whatever. I don't want to kill anyone or get them in trouble with their god. But like...be nice about it.

A few weeks ago a large family came in for…

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Perhaps she can have her Christmas wish and lose her entire family so she won't be burdened with, ugh, questions about herself.

Aren't we all?

So the family should sit around the Christmas tree in silence because this grammar-challenged brat can't be arsed to be polite? Really?! Huh.

And it's not sincere. It's just to show off and make people think their love is ~epic. Real, honest love is not showy at all. In fact, you protect it more. This is just LOOK AT ME! YOUTUBE! VIRAL! INTERNET FAME! ELLEN!

What if she said no?

This kind of shit just exhausts me. It's just attention whoring.

Can you do a form of Kegels to get the bags one at a time and fill them up before pulling them out? I can see this saving time. Asking for a friend.

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Well, if they didn't want to show her nipples then, maybe, they shouldn't have put her in a white tank and sprayed her down with water.