“I am a man who’s in a relationship with a man. I think I’m bi and would like to try sleeping with a woman”
Chausie
felid
What if I’m a married man who wants to explore sex with another woman?
Yeah, I’m not advocating some angry breakup, I just think they shouldn’t be tied to each other while she’s doing her experimenting. It’s not fair to her to feel held back, and it’s certainly not fair to the guy in this circumstance.
Hahahaha...that’s fair; I’ve always been an explainer. It helps that I’m bored at work. ;) Appreciate the support!
Dude, dont defent yourself from every one of these people. Reasonable people understand where you were going, other people just want to internet.
Yeah, and I think that’s why she’s kinda cut off communications with him about the whole thing. Ultimately, she wants to go off and explore her sexuality - without him. I think she had hoped that because it would be her with another woman, he’d be like, ‘oh cool, she can tell me all about it later’ or some nonsense,…
I’ll jump on that grenade and catch some flak for you by saying I agree.
Add to that she’s “afraid she would get jealous”...really? Lmao you want to go sleep with other people but a threesome would make YOU jealous?
I don’t know why you would take flak for this, it’s exactly what should happen.
My wife is bisexual but she put that side of her sexuality away before she started dating me, and we are in a fully committed relationship. All we’d hear if one of us brought this topic up, regardless of gender or sexual orientation is, ‘I want to have sex with someone else who isn’t you.’ These two are heading for…
Exactly the point I was going to make.
Going to jump in here with the others who are agreeing with you. Especially something he said about what she says of possibly feeling jealous about him if they were having a threesome. Sexuality is very fluid, but I wonder if he went and hooked up with a guy while she was with a woman if she would be jealous. I bet…
I mostly agree, though the hair color thing is a bit extreme. If she wants to potentially have sex with a woman just to try it out then her heart isnt truly in it with the guy. How is that really any different than him going up to her and saying “you know, i love you, but i kinda wanna see what its like with other…
I have to agree. My first thought when I read this is that, IMO happy people don’t go looking for more happiness, greedy or unsatisfied people do.
Yep he can’t really think of it “being ok” just because it’s f<->f. It’s more a matter of her wanting to have sex with another person. It’s true that it’s a no-win situation though, since if you say no and she agrees she’ll always regret it and wonder what it would be like (if not give in and do it later anyway in…
As I said to someone else, I get being jealous in a threesome, that’s totally legit. However, it’s pretty lame on her end if she’s envisioning fucking chicks on the side while the poor guy is sitting around with a dirty sock in his hand, that’s note cool. It’s a shame she’s not interested in a threesome, because it…
I mean, don’t get me wrong, I understand the potential for jealousy in a threesome. But yeah, if she can’t handle the dude getting any from someone else, that’s pretty hypocritical on her end.
The girl also said that she would get jealous in a three some situation, which seems like she wants to be the only one having sex outside the relationship which is unfair. I could be reading that incorrectly, but it stuck out at me.
You simplify things by making it skin-deep.