We rolled in with a marriage green card and I swear they wanted us to feel like we did it for a green card... we didn’t - unlike many of my girlfriends from the Philippines... (who married American Filipinos and all lived two separate lives).  

I wish ours was optional! We had to bring in photographic evidence, all documents, joint accounts - I even brought in a photo of our fetus! LOL.

Yeah, it’s already a long process and this’ll likely make it even longer.

Oh Dear Lord!