Totally. Waiting tables for a year would probably teach her more than all her schooling seems to have done.

co-signed. i’m the oldest of many, don’t ask for shit, paid my own way and i don’t have any business being in anyone else’s money until they ask me for mine. “sad sister” sounds like “snotty sister who’s bored as fuck and looking for anything to be annoyed about because she has eight hours a day to play with a cat and…

Unemployed but spending 8 hours playing with a cat? Girlfriend, in your situation, until you find a job, looking for a job is your full time job.

Well, if you’re in a lot of debt, living at home, and don’t have a job then you’re life is kind of a mess too. Just messy in a different way from Morgan’s. Which is fine life is messy. But it’s not super constructive to build a narrative that her life is in tatters compared to your’s. Another POV is she has two kids,…

I dunno, but maybe post grad should just get a job that gets her out of the house and on her own where she belongs.